Hello everyone, today I'm going to talk about a blind date model that has been very popular recently - group blind date.
Blind date, we are all strangers.
It usually means that someone is matchmaking, and the man and woman meet each other with the purpose of marriage;
Put your respective conditions and three views on a swing and see if you can meet your eyes.
So what is a group blind date?
In fact, those blind date TV shows in the early years counted.
But this time it's different, from online to offline, from official to personal;
The group-style blind date has made a comeback and intensified;
It has even evolved to the point of madness.
A while ago, the blind date of the Kaifeng princess was very popular, and the first shot of the offline group blind date was fired.
Let's take stock of what is going on with friends who don't know much about it.
There is a long live mountain scenic spot in Kaifeng, Henan, and there are many NPCs in the scenic spot;
Among them, there is an aunt who is a grandmother and aunt, who blew up the whole network by giving everyone a blind date on the platform a while ago.
There is a rich woman and girl who chooses a mate domineeringly, saying that the man does not have to go to work, and he will give him 5,000 yuan a month;
The more handsome you are, the more pocket money you have;
Then within five minutes of knowing each other, the two kissed on stage;
There are muscular male doctors who strip off their muscles on stage;
Just to find the girl of your dreams.
The golden girl asked domineeringly if anyone was willing to be a son-in-law;
There are also divorced men who bring their daughters to the stage to find their stepmothers;
As soon as the girl spoke: My mother doesn't want me anymore and wants to find a mother to love me;
Immediately let the hearts of the spectators and the princess melt together.
Originally, Wang Po said that the matchmaker was just an interactive performance in the Banzai Mountain Scenic Area;
As a result, with the professionalism and hard work of NPCs, it became an offline blind date meeting for 10,000 people.
Not only did Wang Po's account gain millions of fans in a short period of time;
Tickets for the Long Live Mountain Scenic Area are even more difficult to grab than concert tickets;
The actor of Wang Po also became the love champion of Cupid and the reincarnation of Yuelao, the goddess of love in Henan, overnight;
Some people drive thousands of kilometers just to see the style of the blind date conference;
Some people waited in the audience for more than ten days, eager to get the opportunity to go on stage to receive the number plate of love.
The men and women waiting for blind dates in the north and south of the world shouted one after another:
It's not that "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb" can't afford it, but Wang Po said that the media is more cost-effective.
But the traffic brought by the explosion also made Wang Po say that the media became mixed.
Some Internet celebrities have their eyes on this wave of popularity, and the blind date has suddenly changed its flavor and become a trick of traffic.
There was a young man who waited in the audience for four days, and finally grabbed the front row;
After several twists and turns on stage, he finally held hands with the girl he liked;
The girl on stage said that she was a person in the catering industry;
After holding hands with the audience, he confessed that he was an Internet celebrity, and he didn't look for a partner but only rubbed traffic.
There are many examples like this, some of which can be seen through by Wang Po's fiery eyes;
some are good at camouflage, deceiving the emotions of the blind date and the audience;
It's just that the popularity of Internet celebrities is not over;
Some people even concealed the fact of marriage, which accelerated the "collapse" of this blind date conference.
A man surnamed Liu stood on the stage to talk about the media;
pretended to be a unique love seed in the world, saying that he could quit his job for love and go thousands of miles to the sea of love;
The sincerity of the rhetoric and the superb acting skills are several layers higher than "Infinite Transcendence Class";
Wang Po herself was moved, and the visitors also admired him for charging for love.
The man surnamed Liu also held hands with a Sichuan girl in the excitement;
originally thought that the two would be able to communicate amicably after stepping down, and even achieve positive results.
As a result, the blind date video went viral, and the man's wife appeared!
The man and his wife are in a foreign relationship, and the wife is studying in Japan, but she finds that her husband is on a blind date on stage.
The wife broke down on the spot, and the man began to apologize;
said that he didn't want to cheat, he just wanted to be a conspicuous bag.
Normal love is unattended, and the deformed blind date is rapidly fermenting.
Wang Po's actor Zhao Mei's original intention is to let everyone make friends sincerely;
But because people's hearts are not ancient, the blind date has become a farce.
Zhao Mei was also exhausted and tired, so she decided to retire temporarily.
After the blind date of the princess of Kaifeng became popular on the whole network, it brought a lot of traffic to the local cultural tourism;
So all parts of the country followed suit, and Wang Po said that the media blossomed all over the country.
Not only the offline scenic spots have taken a fancy to this group-style blind date model.
Some people have also started to organize group matchmaking online.
In the live broadcast room, the male and female guests turned on their cameras and showed their headshots;
Some beauty filters are full;
Some of the modeling lights are weird;
In the past, 1V1 blind dates had to be regarded as social fear benefits;
Now the live broadcast room is online, and it has become a paradise for E people and a hell for I people.
It's okay for male and female guests to take turns to speak;
I'm afraid that the fun people will come to do the whole work;
is polite when introducing himself, and scares others out of the city when he shows his talents;
What's even more outrageous is that the group blind date turns into a quarrel scene;
It is equivalent to "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb" has not been successfully matched;
directly became "Love Defense" and "Gold Medal Mediator".
In the past, we had to play a dating app to swipe right frantically to find a partner;
While sifting, it takes a lot of effort to speak and put your heart and soul into it.
Now group blind date is equivalent to one-stop speed dating;
Focus on reducing costs and increasing efficiency, efficiency first.
In a short-term and efficient group communication, try to find the other half who will accompany you for a lifetime.
But is this really realistic?
In fact, whether it is Wang Po saying that the media is blooming all over the country;
or the group blind date organized by netizens has become popular.
All reflect the dilemma of contemporary love: it is really difficult to find a partner;
In the past few years, I have found that young people have become more and more disenchanted by love;
is not shocked by the blind date "your strength is coming";
It is the trend of losing on dating apps and only talking about the body and not the soul;
Young people are caught in a huge marriage and love gully.
On the one hand, there is the urging of parents to marry and give birth during the New Year's holidays;
On the one hand, there is the frequent disappointment that a partner is hard to find;
Young people in the gap between marriage and love are forced to put their education, appearance, and figure on the table for others to pick and choose.
From the blind date corner in the park with a house and a car, the real price of the blind date;
to what we wrote about before parents helping their children go on blind dates;
It seems that as soon as young people reach marriageable age, they are pushed forward by social trends and family members.
Today's group blind date is an important embodiment of the improvement of blind date efficiency.
In speed-dating love, we are symbolized as age, education, household registration, and family strength.
In fact, group blind dates are very similar to interviews in many large factories;
It is unable to achieve heart-to-heart communication in a short period of time;
It's a game of efficiency and self-packaging.
I must admit that it was efficient;
But efficiency itself, is the opposite of love.
On the one hand, we look at the efficiency of finding love;
On the one hand, it is lost in efficient love;
As a result, we are trapped in a vicious circle of efficiency.
An era in which efficiency is pursued from work to relationship, the essence is because of fear.
At a time when everyone is stuck in the gears of the machine and trying to "thrive", do you dare to swim against the current?
Love is not a simple biological breeding, nor is it a merger of value labels;
But sadly, the era of the primacy of romantic love seems to have passed;
I miss it a lot.