She came from a rural area, and was admitted to a key university by her own efforts, and even a doctorate by her own efforts.

But a 3-month flash marriage dragged her into an endless abyss.

What forced her to commit suicide by jumping off a building the day after she received a PhD offer?

What did that man's peculiar fetish do to her?

After the death of their daughter, the parents decided to sue their son-in-law, and the result of the court trial was puzzling!

Hard-working rural girl

Luo Hongling's parents are farmers in Sichuan, she has been firm in her belief that "knowledge can change destiny" since she was a child, and she studied diligently every day in order to go out of the countryside and see a broader world.

And her hard work also paid off, she won the first place in the province in the college entrance examination, and she successfully entered the foreign language department of Ocean University of China.

During her college years, Luo Hongling showed her learning talent to the fullest, and later studied for a bachelor's and master's degree and a doctorate.

But Luo Hongling's hard work also laid the groundwork for the tragedy in the future.

After graduating, Luo Hongling did not abandon her hometown, but returned to Sichuan to work as a Chinese teacher at Sichuan University, and she never left the comfort zone of the campus.

Nearly 30 years old, she has not yet set her lifelong events, which makes her parents very anxious, and Luo Hongling is inevitably under pressure to go on a blind date.

The turning point happened in 2011, and it was said that the end of the blind date was high school classmates, and at a class reunion, Luo Hongling met Cheng Jiansheng from the same school in high school.

Although they are from the same school, they are different classes, and this is also the first time Luo Hongling has met Cheng Jiansheng, and the two have established contact since then.

In the subsequent exchanges, Luo Hongling learned that Cheng Jiansheng was born in poverty like him and lived a very poor life, but he was admitted to university with his own efforts and had a stable job.

The same experience, people in the same place, have many tacit understandings with each other, which also makes Luo Hongling open her heart to him.

Then the two began to officially date.

Subsequently, the two became officially married.

That's right, the two got married in a flash after only three months of acquaintance.

also let Luo Hongling enter the endless abyss.

I thought it would be sweeter after marriage

Perhaps because of the perennial learning of languages, Luo Hongling's messages on the Internet are always full of poetry.

"I thought that after marriage would only be sweeter than when I was in love", this is the text he left on the Internet, but in real life, her husband Cheng Jiansheng communicates less and less with her.

At first, Cheng Jiansheng was very good to Luo Hongling, would cook for Luo Hongling, and took Luo Hongling out to play.

But just a month later, Cheng Jiansheng's attitude changed dramatically.

Because they have to go to work during the day, the two naturally can't be together, but after getting off work, Cheng Jiansheng still doesn't go home, always under the pretext of working overtime and going to the gym to exercise.

Later, it developed to the point that Luo Hongling couldn't find Cheng Jiansheng's figure even on weekends.

Luo Hongling, who is also a first-time wife, does not know the way of husband and wife, so she often asks netizens for help on the Internet, and also looks for various psychological counseling, hoping to establish a good married life.

But no matter how hard Luo Hongling tried, Cheng Jiansheng was indifferent, and finally by chance, Luo Hongling found out that her husband had betrayed her and had an affair outside.

And what Luo Hongling couldn't accept the most was that her husband's affair partner turned out to be a man!

"Same Wife"

It turned out that Cheng Jiansheng turned out to be a homosexual, and he himself didn't like women at all, and he married Luo Hongling just to deal with his parents' nagging.

In this way, Luo Hongling became a "homowife", that is, the wife of a gay man in a legal relationship.

Thinking back to all the strange circumstances after getting married, everything can be explained.

Cheng Jiansheng was not in a hurry to go home to accompany his new wife after work, but went to the gym and practiced until 10 o'clock in the evening.

As soon as he went home, he refused to communicate with Luo Hongling under the pretext of physical fatigue, and the life of the couple was even more pitiful.

Before the incident, Luo Hongling still had a fluke mentality, and exchanged "ways of getting along in marriage" with netizens in the forum.

As a result, enthusiastic netizens sharply pointed out that her husband may be gay, and also got Luo Hongling's rebuttal that "sexual orientation problems can be ruled out", because Luo Hongling knew that she had made love to her husband, but now it may be that Luo Hongling is unwilling to face such a tragic result.

On May 21, just 25 days before Luo Hongling's suicide, when Cheng Jiansheng was taking a bath, a text message happened to be sent to his mobile phone, and Luo Hongling also saw the content of the text message.

After further searching, Cheng Jiansheng's mobile phone found many unsightly chat records and same-sex dating software.

finally Cheng Jiansheng admitted the fact that he was gay, and Luo Hongling was even more grief-stricken, and washed her face with tears all day long.

What made Luo Hongling even more angry was that Cheng Jiansheng still didn't admit that he was cheating on marriage, and Cheng Jiansheng even spent Luo Hongling's money to give gifts to other men outside.

On June 13, Luo Hongling left a message on the forum, "Sisters are right, my husband is a gay, and he is lying to me from beginning to end." ”

On June 14, Luo Hongling told her mother that she was going to divorce, and Cheng Jiansheng also publicly admitted his sexual orientation on social media and apologized to Luo Hongling.

On June 15, Luo Hongling sent her last message on social media, "This world is really tiring, so let it all end!" He then committed suicide by jumping off a building.

2 days before committing suicide, she told her mother that she wanted a divorce, and 1 day before committing suicide, her hypocritical husband also exposed his crimes on the Internet, and also sent a text message to Luo Hongling to apologize.

If Luo Hongling and Cheng Jiansheng divorce, she still has a good future, and she still has a chance to start over, perhaps because of the collapse of a thought, which completely broke her psychological defense.

She also really took her life into her own hands, but unfortunately in such an extreme form.

It's a pity that it's hard to recover, no matter how many times she apologizes for the spilled milk, she won't let the milk return to the cup, outsiders have never experienced Luo Hongling's inner struggle, and Luo Hongling's pain is only known to herself.

Luo Hongling's message on the Internet also gave outsiders a glimpse of her inner pain.

"You've had so many chances to let me go

Why do you have to drag me into the quagmire?"

"In my last moments

Let me curse you:

The painting skin is lonely for a lifetime"

The trial was fruitless

After Luo Hongling left her last stroke, she jumped from her home on the 13th floor, ending her life at the age of 31.

After learning the bad news, Luo Hongling's relatives and friends naturally couldn't let Cheng Jiansheng go to court, so Luo Hongling's parents sued Cheng Jiansheng in court, and he should be responsible for Luo Hongling's death.

Luo Hongling's father, Luo Dahua and his wife, believed that their daughter's death was caused by Cheng Jiansheng's fraudulent marriage, so they demanded 630,000 yuan in compensation from Cheng Jiansheng.

However, the court's trial result did not support the second elder's request, because Luo Hongling is a person with full civil capacity, and jumping off the building is not the only option, so Luo Hongling's death is suicide, and the law cannot try Cheng Jiansheng for guilt.

epilogue

It may be relatively rare in China, but on the other side of the world, the United States allows the promotion of homosexuality, which can also show that homosexuality is not so rare from a certain perspective.

It's not entirely a cultural influence, because there are people whose brain is not physically the same as normal, and who is born gay and likes the same sex even if he is not influenced by others.

Forcing natural homosexuals to like the opposite sex is like forcing a lame man to grow legs and a blind man to see the world clearly, which is what they can't do, and that's how they are physiologically so.

Homosexuality is one thing, but deception is another.

Cheng Jiansheng deceived Luo Hongling into getting married in order to alleviate the pressure of his life, and made a promise to Luo Hongling that he couldn't keep, which should undoubtedly be Cheng Jiansheng's crime.

It's a pity that people can't judge him for his crimes, so they can only condemn this liar with morality.

Resources

Husband exposes gay identity, female doctor jumps off the building, parents-in-law claim 630,000-China News Network (chinanews.com.cn)