introduction

April is approaching twilight, but it adds to the sorrow of the world! How can parents bear the pain of a white-haired person sending a black-haired person to a black-haired person! The youngest son is still young, and no one will ever love him like his father......

Dongdong, a dynamic doctor, a brave anti-cancer influencer, and a father of two children, was ruthlessly struck down by stomach cancer at the age of forty. His journey to fight cancer has attracted more than 100,000 fans, who cheer on this brave father and expect him to work miracles.

Although stomach cancer recurred three times, which brought great pain to Dongdong, he never gave up hope, but bravely fought against the disease, hoping to do his best to help the society. At his thinnest, he weighed only 65 pounds, which shows the torture he experienced.

In the last moments of his life, he just wanted to see his children grow up, and that was what motivated him to persevere. But fate did not smile on him, and he died at 11:30 p.m. on April 26.

I couldn't help but wet my eyes with tears when I saw this story early in the morning, saw Dongdong's tragic fate, and saw his kindness, tenacity and optimism that did not succumb to fate.

In this world, there are people dying every moment and every minute in this world, but when I see such a young, so good, and such a beautiful person being tortured and devastated by illness, and finally dying, I still feel sad in my heart:

Why don't good people die well, and why don't good people get rewarded......

I used to always think, people, how should we live a meaningful life?

Imagine a scenario:

You knelt in front of the Jade Emperor, and he said that you will be reincarnated in the lower realm immediately, and you will live for 80 years, how do you want to spend these 80 years?

On this question, I thought and thought, for many years, I finally found an answer that I felt satisfactory to, and it was also the direction I wanted my life to be:

Experience the beauty of the world, and then create the beauty of the world.

It's very abstract, as if it didn't say anything. To explain:

To see the world of flowers, to see the magnificent mountains and rivers, to feel the warmth of family affection, to feel the sweetness of love, to watch dolphins skimming the sea, to read a book, watch a movie, eat a food, drink a sip of wine and drinks......

This is the ability to experience beauty, this is the ability to perceive happiness, and when you have this ability, you will experience beauty, you will experience happiness.

Sometimes, happiness can really be as small as a ray of sunshine, a birdsong, or a smile. The wind comes to listen to the wind, the rain comes to listen to the rain, where is it not beautiful?

Creating beauty is actually more important, not to mention discovering the laws of physics, from writing an article, planting a potted plant, making a paper-cutting, making a delicacy, to creating a product, a company, and a system......

This is my life choice, sometimes I am confused, so I take it out and look at it to enlighten myself.

Everyone is a guest of everyone, including parents, husband and wife, children, friends. In essence, he is still a person, an independent individual.

On the road of life, we may walk together a lot. Perhaps, it's just a stop at the same time. Some people have reached the finish line, and some people are still on the way.

It's a must-go for everyone. So, when you take a step away and look at all of this, there's nothing to worry about. Everyone has a destiny, and those who should come will always come, and those who should go will not be kept.

Only by being oneself can you cross others, only by yourself.

In this short life, whether it is parents, lovers, children, friends, fate, cherish it, and don't get entangled in pain. Don't suffer from gains and losses when you get together, and don't know how to cherish it;

Life is not a big deal, in the end, no one can escape death, but it is only a matter of time. But we can choose how we live. Happiness and pain are really just a thought.

Let us remember the anti-cancer warrior Dongdong, remember his bravery and perseverance, draw strength from it, cherish life, and live a wonderful life.

epilogue

May each of us cherish life, cherish the present, and live in the present. While it's still too late, save the best for the people you love the most, and the people who love us the most.

In this way, this short life, even if it is in a hurry, can have no regrets.

Hello everyone, I'm Qin Sangrou, thank you for meeting, thank you for your attention.

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