Preface

In the entertainment industry, there is a kind of person who is affectionately called "Big Sister". They not only have good acting skills, but also have excellent popularity, and are known as "where to go, where to go, where to go". Yan Ni is one of the representatives. This 53-year-old single actress has not only played countless amorous roles in film and television works, but in real life, her relationship history is not inferior to the script.

At one point, I was stupid and couldn't tell the difference between true and false emotions

Yan Ni was born in Xi'an, Shaanxi Province in 1971, and her family background was ordinary when she was young. Since she was a child, she has been a "fool", often losing everything, and she likes to be late for class. However, this "confused energy" became the basis for her changing image in her later film and television works.

In 1988, Yan Ni entered the Lanzhou Military Region Repertory Troupe and officially embarked on the road of acting. In 1999, she became an instant hit in the movie "The Rooster Crows, the Hen Lays Eggs". In the following years, she starred in TV series such as "The Story of the Cooking Class" and "Wulin Gaiden", and became a household name in one fell swoop.

Just when her career was getting better, Yan Ni's love life fell into a trough. In 2003, she divorced her ex-husband and has been raising her daughter alone since then. The divorce devastated her, and she lost confidence in her relationship for a while, and she couldn't tell the truth from the fake.

But fortunately, with a career as a spiritual sustenance, coupled with an independent and confident personality, Yan Ni quickly walked out of the haze. She focused on filming as usual and put all her attention into her work. Soon, she ushered in new emotional opportunities.

In 2007, when 36-year-old Yan Ni was filming the TV series "Coming Home", she met actor Wang Wei, who was 9 years younger than herself. The two hit it off at first sight and soon fell in love. Despite the age difference, Wang Wei's attraction to this "big sister" is irresistible.

Some media ridiculed at the time that Yan Ni was "stealing" small fresh meat. However, for this single mother who has been divorced for many years, being able to fall in love with a man who is nearly 10 years younger than herself seems to prove that she still has the charm of a young woman.

It's a pity that the good times didn't last long, and after two years of passionate love, Wang Wei and Yan Ni's relationship reached an impasse, and the two finally broke up in 2009. Yan Ni bluntly said that the reason for the breakup was "hating to see each other late", and the age difference between her and Wang Wei was too much.

This failed relationship did not make Yan Ni give up her illusions about young men. On the contrary, she seems to be fascinated by the "young tooth body", so in the following years, she has had scandals with more young fresh meat who is more than ten years younger than herself.

In 2016, Yan Ni fell in love with actor Wang Qiming, who was 11 years younger than herself. During the period of love between the two, they often showed their affection on the show and were known as a "model couple". It's a pity that the good times didn't last long, and the two broke up after only 2 years of transition.

Soon after the breakup, Yan Ni had an affair with actor Zhang Duo, who was 11 years younger than her. After the 51-year-old "old aunt" and the 28-year-old "Little Fresh Meat" relationship was exposed, it immediately aroused heated discussions among netizens. Some people praised Yan Ni for being "too energetic" and "really an 'old fox' who eats tender grass".

However, some people criticized this, thinking that Yan Ni was "coveting a young man's body" and "really out of grace". After all, in the traditional concept, middle-aged women falling in love with men who are more than ten years younger than themselves are really breaking through social acceptance.

Yan Ni also admitted frankly that she does have a hobby of "age love". But she emphasized that she knows very well what true love is, and the reason why she has scandals with many little fresh meat is just because she is "really single for too long and lonely".

said so, but Yan Ni's behavior was not "honest". In 2018, she had another scandal with Xiao Xianrou, who was 21 years younger than herself, and was photographed spending the night at her house. The two had to confirm their relationship and said that their relationship was very innocent.

In the face of the strange eyes of the world, Yan Ni also learned to be calm. She said that although she is almost 60 years old, she is still young at heart. Instead of commising, it is better to find true love, even if the other party is "little fresh meat"?

The frenzied "cooling-off" period of the "old ladies".

Entering her 50s, Yan Ni's behavior of "stealing young grass" seems to have finally calmed down. She began to reflect on her relationship experience, and gave some thought-provoking analysis of why she is still unmarried.

Yan Ni admitted frankly that a big reason why she divorced was that she was too young and impulsive. She married and had a daughter in her 20s, and faced a dilemma between career and family. Later, for the sake of her career, she chose the "alternative" path of divorce.

Many years have passed, and Yan Ni is no longer the young man she was back then. Not only has she achieved great success in her career, but she has also become wiser and more independent in life. For feelings, she has higher requirements and standards.

"Now I know better what true love is. It means that two people have a common pursuit both materially and spiritually, and can support each other and grow together on the road of life. Yan Ni said, "If it's just for physical needs, it's not love at all." "

It is with this belief that Yan Ni will stay away from those "straw" young men. She hopes to find a relationship that she cherishes, not just physical pleasure. Happiness is actually very simple, that is, "so comfortable" Although she is still unmarried, Yan Ni is not alone. She has her own career, a rapport with her daughter, and a happy heart.

Yan Ni and her daughter Zou Yuanqing have always had a good relationship. Since she was a child, her daughter has been loved by Yan Ni's ex-parents-in-law as her own granddaughter. Even though Yan Ni divorced her ex-husband, she still regarded her ex-in-laws as relatives and often went back to her parents' house to visit.

In 2008, Yan Ni's ex-father-in-law said to her at a family party with rare emotion: "From now on, you will not be our daughter-in-law, but our daughter." An ordinary sentence made Yan Ni cry a lot. As a single mother, she feels very happy to have such a warm family to support her.

Yan Ni's happiness also comes from the achievements of her career. Although she is over half a hundred years old, she has always maintained her enthusiasm for the profession of actor. Every time she appears in a new drama, she puts 100% of her energy into studying the role.

In 2023, although Yan Ni's performance in the new drama "Breakout" has caused some controversy, some viewers think that her acting skills have not improved much. But the screenwriting team praised her for being a perfect fit for the role, calling her "the best candidate".

For these doubts, Yan Ni also took it lightly. She said that she will never be swayed by public opinion, as long as she tries her best to play every role. "I'm an actor who lives for the role, and I hope people enjoy my performance. "

In addition to her career and family, Yan Ni's greatest happiness may be her inner freedom. This "big confused" has always been optimistic, honest and straightforward, and has a simple and happy heart for every bit of life.

The ex-in-laws saw that she had a successful career and her daughter was also outstanding, and persuaded her many times to find another wishful husband. Yan Ni smiled and said, "I will wait until the right person appears, and I won't be in a hurry." Now my life is very happy, I just want to be 'comfortable'. "

For the future, the 53-year-old single actress is still full of expectations. She is optimistic that as long as she is happy inside, it doesn't matter whether she is married or not. One day, maybe she will find the one with whom she has a heart, but even if she is forever single, she can still live her life freely.

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In general, Yan Ni has a variety of styles, distinctive personality, and optimism, and it is these traits that have earned her the reputation of "big sister" in the entertainment industry. Her emotional experience is unique and unique, just like herself, which makes people love and hate, envy and sympathize.

However, what is more positive is that this "confused big sister" finally understood the true meaning of happiness - happiness is actually very simple, that is, to be "comfortable". As long as you are happy and free in your heart, you can live your own wonderful life, whether it is your career or your relationship.