1. Fatuma's sharing of private photos detonated online public opinion, and the public questioned the motives of the mother and daughter's behavior
Just when everyone was deeply grieved in January 2019, just three months after Mr. Li Yong's birthday, his charming beloved daughter Fatumah boldly shared a very personalized private photo on social platforms.
In the photo, she is wearing black underwear, her fingernails are carefully painted black, and a delicate little moon tattoo is tattooed on her waist, showing her unique fashion taste.
For a time, all kinds of harsh criticism were endless. Many netizens have accused Fatoumah of publicly displaying such "indecent" photos shortly after his father's death, which they believe is ruthless and unrighteous to his deceased relatives and serious damage to his own image.
"Li Yong will definitely be heartbroken when she sees this scene in heaven!" "She didn't show respect for her deceased father at all" "What an unfilial daughter!" These negative remarks hit like a storm.
However, there are also some netizens who maintain a calm and objective attitude and complain about Fatoumai. "Some people really like to be other people's parents, and they are too lenient. "It is a personal freedom to dress up, and we should respect everyone's choice.
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In fact, Ms. Haven had shared an article by Fatoumah on social media, which was selected by Writer's Digest, and she personally accompanied a beautiful photo of her daughter, with pride and pride in her eyes.
When someone questioned the "troublesome" photo, she just responded indifferently with a "So cool!" , resolutely supporting her daughter's lifestyle with practical actions.
2. Li Yong's process of going out for medical treatment and the criticism suffered by his family
That scene is still vivid in my mind - one day in June 2017, the well-known host Li Yong suddenly collapsed in the dressing room, and was then rushed to the hospital for examination. When he learned that he was suffering from advanced laryngeal cancer, Mr. Li Yong, who has always been known for his optimism and cheerfulness, showed a rare sad expression, his eyes were empty, and he was obviously deeply hit by this sudden bad news.
In order to avoid the worries of his elderly parents, and also to avoid the upcoming media questioning, Mr. Li Yong resolutely took his wife Haven and daughter Fatumai to make a decision that countless people could not understand - to go to the United States for treatment.
However, this decision has attracted overwhelming abuse and doubts in China. "After earning the wealth of the Chinese, he went to the United States to squander it!" "A guy who worships foreign people through and through!" "Looking at his ugly-looking face makes people feel disgusted!" Internet trolls wantonly attacked and insulted Li Yong's behavior without scruples.
In fact, Li Yong originally just wanted to withdraw from the noise of the media camera, but unexpectedly fell into deeper troubles and distractions.
What is even more chilling is that after Li Yong's death, at his funeral in the United States, his dearest parents were blocked. As soon as this news was revealed, Harvin's identity once again became the focus of heated public discussion, and he was under unimaginable pressure from public opinion.
Doubts came one after another, and some outspoken people even speculated that the reason why Harvin did this was to occupy Li Yong's inheritance alone.
In the face of these renewed doubts, Harvin chose to remain silent, knowing that any explanation could only increase misunderstandings. On social platforms, she only posted a simple word "morning" to express her concern and greetings to her husband Li Yong in his illness.
By observing Harvin's simple, powerful, and meaningful actions, many people find it even more difficult to understand the bumpy journey of this couple, who have lived through difficult times together.
3. Li Yong and Ha Wen: Their passionate and tenacious married life and legendary career
The encounter between Li Yong and Ha Wen seems to be accidental, but in fact, it has long been doomed. In that youthful and energetic campus, Li Yong always sketched around with a sketchbook in hand, and no matter what he encountered, he always liked to record it with a paintbrush.
One day, he was caught by a girl with a high ponytail. The girl has a beautiful face, and although she is slightly baby fat, her jawline is clear and clear. Li Yong seemed to be hit by her, and couldn't help but quietly depict her beautiful face in the sketchbook.
After that, whenever he flipped through the sketchbook, he would stare at the portrait obsessively until he was gently tapped on the shoulder by his roommate. "Dude, are you just the so-called love at first sight?" the roommate teased.
Li Yong suddenly realized that this was what people said about love at first sight.
In the process of pursuing Harvin, Li Yong performed various romantic tricks. He often folded beautiful envelopes with his own hands and poured out his heartfelt letters, or sneaked into the girls' dorm room, donning women's coats, hats, and sunglasses just to make Harwin laugh.
In terms of work, Harvin is the producer behind the scenes, responsible for managing many popular shows hosted by Li Yong. The acclaimed "strongest couple" is well-known in the industry.
It wasn't until 2015 that Harvin resolutely chose to get away from the hustle and bustle and return to the academic field, devoting herself to her doctoral studies at her alma mater and concentrating on the trivial daily affairs of her family.
That year, their only child, Fatoumah, had reached the age of 13 and was going through a rebellious adolescence. In order to better accompany and guide his daughter to grow up, Harvin decisively made this difficult choice after careful consideration, which can be said to be the best choice after careful consideration.
In the eyes of others, she may seem to have given up on her career, but in reality, she is trying to find a balance between family and work.
Fourth, after Li Yong's death, Ha Wen and his daughter suffered another criticism
After Li Yong's death, Harvin held his funeral in the United States in a simple and solemn manner in order to respect her late husband's last wishes. Due to their different religious beliefs, and Li Yong's concern that his elderly parents would not be able to withstand the fatigue of a long journey, made this special arrangement.
However, this move has once again aroused the anger of the majority of netizens, who have harshly criticized and condemned Harvin's decision not to let the two elderly people attend their son's funeral.
Many people even ruthlessly asserted that Haven's purpose in doing this was to take possession of the property left by Li Yong alone, completely ignoring her husband's instructions before his death, and some people maliciously speculated that Haven may have planned this "conspiracy" from the beginning.
In the face of the overwhelming wave of doubts on the Internet, Haven remained silent and did not respond or explain. As Li Yong's wife, she was firmly determined to act in full accordance with her husband's deathbed wishes.
It's just that in the long years after marriage, Harvin has dutifully played the role of a filial and virtuous daughter-in-law. Whenever the festival comes, she will always give generous gifts to her in-laws on behalf of Li Yong, and sometimes take time to return to China to visit her in-laws and the two elderly people in person.
Considering that his in-laws are getting older and their physical condition is getting worse, Ha Wen specially prepared a variety of care supplies for them, carefully packed them and sent them to the elderly's home, which is full of deep respect for his in-laws.
Unfortunately, due to the huge social repercussions caused by the events of that year, Havin's deep affection for his in-laws has not received due attention and praise for a long time. It is only today that people are gradually beginning to realize this.
Perhaps, the trauma of the loss of a loved one is too deep for us to truly understand and empathize with the sacrifice and dedication of a venerable daughter-in-law.
Part 5: Li Yong's last wish - looking forward to his wife and daughter walking smoothly and enjoying happiness
Before his death, Li Yong's strongest wish was to hope that his wife, children, and father-in-law could have a happy life, away from all pain and trouble. He always believes that as long as his family can live a happy and carefree life, then he has no regrets.
However, Li Yong was unfortunately diagnosed with terminal cancer and his life was about to come to an end. Faced with the cruel reality of death, his heart was full of complex emotions, but he never gave up his desire to survive.
Li Yong knew that his gentle and virtuous wife, Harvin, would be able to keep the family in order, and that his dear daughter, Fatuma, was still young at 13 years old, but he firmly believed that under the careful care of her great mother, she would be able to grow up healthy and live the good life she had longed for.
For his elderly father-in-law and mother-in-law, Li Yong's only wish is that they can be physically and mentally healthy, and they don't have to grieve excessively because of his departure. He couldn't bear to see two elderly people he loved dearly in their old age, in the endless grief of losing their loved ones.
Although life is short, Li Yong's deep love for her family is so sincere and warm. Although he has passed away, his prayers for his wife, daughter, and parents will never stop.