This is a very short video, and it is also a very simple thing, but it has sparked heated discussions and debates among netizens, because there are two eternal debates involved: 1. Human nature is evil or human nature is good?2. How can a two-child (multiple-child) family give children a balance of love and care?
Okay, let's start with a video, which is a video posted by a mom herself on the web.
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In order to give you a clearer understanding and judgment of this matter, I will describe what happened to you again in words.
On February 27, in a family in Guangdong, the surveillance record is as follows: the mother went to the kitchen to wash the bottle of the 2-month-old baby girl, leaving the 2-and-a-half-year-old brother and 2-month-old sister in the living room, and the mother left for about 1 minute.
My sister was only 2 months old, and she couldn't turn over, so her mother put her on the sofa and left with peace of mind. But the danger is not the sofa, but the boy in front of him, his two-and-a-half-year-old brother.
I saw him pick up a large towel on the sofa and cover his sister's face, the sister struggled slightly, the boy observed for a while, pressed the towel with his hand, and then pressed his head heavily on his sister's face, the sister struggled uncomfortably, the boy picked up the towel, glanced at his sister's face, and put the towel on his sister's face for the second time.
The boy ran away to observe, the younger sister was suffocated, very uncomfortable, the boy was lifted by the towel again, observed the sister's face, and then covered the sister's face for the third time, and pressed it vigorously with his hands, and covered it tightly in all directions, the younger sister desperately kicked her legs and struggled, crying loudly, her mother heard the crying and came out to watch, the elder brother heard the mother's footsteps, quickly took away the towel, pretended to lie on the sofa and played as if nothing happened, and then saw that the sister's little face was already red.
The elder brother was lying on the sofa and playing by himself, but the younger sister was blushing, and the mother felt very strange, so she checked the surveillance and found the above behavior of the elder brother, she posted the video on the Internet, with the text: 2 and a half years old, it seems to understand whether he understands or not, and he doesn't know how to educate?
It can be seen that the mother's original intention was to ask for advice on how to educate the bear child, she knew that her brother had done bad things, and she also knew the danger and seriousness of the matter, but she didn't know how to educate him and teach him a lesson?
The speaker has no intention of listening, netizens have a heart after watching the video, most netizens are angry, and mercilessly expressed their condemnation of the boy's behavior, thinking that he is deliberate, some children have evil seeds in their bones, this boy is, the so-called human nature is not a rumor, it is proved and experienced from this boy, he just wants to hurt his sister purposefully, he is not innocent, 3 years old to see the old, some people have been bad ruffians since childhood, and when they are older, they are a time bomb that will explode at any time.
Another part of netizens believes that his brother is only more than 2 years old, and he may just think it is fun and has no malice, or he knows that it is a bad behavior, but he does not realize that it will be dangerous and will kill his sister.
Afterwards, the mother also replied: My brother thought it was funny
One stone stirred up a thousand waves, and my mother's reply angered netizens, everyone thought that she was partial to her brother, she didn't know the severity, she didn't distinguish between right and wrong, she didn't know how to educate her children if she didn't stop the boy's evil seeds from sprouting in time, and she didn't know what the consequences would be in the future.
With curiosity, I looked at this mother's account and learned that this is an 89-year-old mother who actually has 4 children, the eldest is a son, a test-tube student. The second and third are twin sons, IVF. The fourth child is the baby girl in this video, Xiaolongnu, born on February 25 and born naturally. In the video, it was the third child who covered his sister with a towel.
Judging from this mother's previous videos, the mother also loves this little daughter very much, after all, there are three men and one woman, and things are scarce and expensive, how can they not cherish and love it. Therefore, she should not be patriarchal, but she simply thinks that her son is still young, only 2 and a half years old, what bad intentions can there be? It must be fun, I don't know the severity, but netizens didn't think of her reply, and they condemned her and abused her, and finally the mother deleted this video, but there are still many netizens who leave messages under her other videos, mocking, condemning and even personal attacks.
Regarding the boy's behavior, do you think it was an unintentional act or an intentional evil act, and how do you think the mother should educate the boy?