Nowadays, people's ideology is becoming more and more open, unlike in the past, when they fell in love and held hands, they would be nervous for a long time, and now there are not a few people who fall in love and live together, which is no longer strange.
In fact, unmarried cohabitation should still pay special attention, especially girls, must do a good job, if you are really unmarried and pregnant, if you can get married smoothly, it is good to say that it can be said that it is double happiness.
It would be too hard to accept if they parted ways afterwards.
No, a 29-year-old woman in Wuxi, Jiangsu Province recently encountered the same trouble, she was 29 years old unmarried and pregnant, but what she was waiting for was not a white wedding dress, a happy wedding, but her boyfriend's indifferent breakup.
At the beginning of the video, you can see the woman crying pear blossom with rain, "I was 29 years old and unmarried and pregnant, and we broke up the day after I found out that I was pregnant."
This seemingly short sentence contains the woman's endless sadness and pain.
Originally, the woman and her boyfriend have been getting along for many years, and the relationship has been very good, when the woman found out that she was pregnant, she was also full of joy, and even the woman began to imagine her boyfriend kneeling down on one knee to propose marriage, and then she walked towards him in a wedding dress, and since then their family of three has lived happily together.
But sometimes illusions are easily shattered, after all, the ideal is very plump, and the reality is very skinny.
What the woman never expected was that she didn't wait for her boyfriend's marriage proposal, but waited for the news of her boyfriend's breakup.
After that, the phone was not answered, the message was not returned, the woman was a little desperate, she said that her boyfriend didn't care about her at all, didn't care that she was almost 30 years old, wouldn't care how much pain she felt, and wouldn't care about her bitter pleading, her boyfriend's attitude was like stabbing her directly with a knife in the heart, stabbing her all over the body.
Then I finally got in touch with my boyfriend, and the woman told her boyfriend that he had to show an attitude and what they should do next.
You can see that my boyfriend keeps saying "I didn't want to tell you, can you please let me be alone for a while, please, don't force me anymore, let me calm down for a while, my emotions have reached their peak......"
The man had been complaining that the woman had put too much pressure on him, and he wanted a moment of peace, but what he didn't know was how deeply his attitude hurt the woman.
The woman did calm him down, but after calming down, the woman asked her boyfriend to express her position again, making him like a man, and when he was a little responsible, his boyfriend replied directly: "I'm talking to my mother." ”
The final result was that the boyfriend ignored the woman's body and her age of nearly 30 years old, saying that he didn't want the child and asked the woman to beat the child.
The moment she heard her boyfriend ask her to kill the child, the woman was completely dead, she no longer had any illusions about her boyfriend, but resolutely chose to break up with her boyfriend, she wanted to give birth to the child alone.
With the support of the family, the woman said that although she knew that being an unmarried mother, the road ahead would be difficult, but she was more willing to persist than giving up, and she believed that the road ahead would be full of flowers.
In the end, the woman sent her boyfriend one last message, and they were fine.
Being an unwed mother really takes a lot of courage and also means taking on all the responsibilities, and this pressure is not something that anyone can bear.
And the 29-year-old woman decided to be an unmarried mother, and netizens also had a lot of discussions, some for and some against.
Supporting netizens said that giving birth to a child is at least better than betraying and divorcing, after all, there are parents who can help you, at least have a child to accompany you in the end.
Some netizens also said that with the help of parents, it will definitely get better and better, you must be a competent mother, and some complete families may not love their children as much as you do.
There are those who are in favor and those who are against.
Some netizens said that they should not only be moved by this matter, but also think about their children, whether they are willing to come.
There are also netizens who persuade not to keep the child as a passer-by, because the child is born without a father, and living in an incomplete family is also a harm to him.
Some netizens said that the woman will regret it in the end, because it is very easy to be moved, but this move needs to take a lifetime to support, and it will be very bumpy.
In fact, no matter what kind of decision the woman makes, as long as she thinks about it and her family supports it, as an outsider, she just needs to bless it.
In fact, as a single mother, there will definitely be difficulties in this process, but I also believe that it should be more about the happiness and joy brought by the child.
There is also a reminder to the woman that although her boyfriend does not want this child, after the child is born, he should bear no less responsibility.
Finally, I still want to persuade girls that it is best not to live together if they are unmarried, let alone get pregnant out of wedlock, and to learn to love themselves.
What do you think about this?