For a child, the divorce of his parents will inevitably affect him in some way. It's just that whether the impact is good or bad depends entirely on the choice of parents.
When it comes to the name Huang Zhizhong, many viewers may not be familiar with it. But as soon as you see that face, most people must suddenly realize.
As an actor, he is quite a talented person. But what many people don't know is that Huang Zhizhong is not an acting professional, and all his performances are based on talent.
However, unlike many excellent actors, Huang Zhizhong does not have a happy family. He divorced He Yin in his early years and never married again.
Of course, this is not because he has no feelings for his ex-wife, but because of his son's words, he has remained single until now.
So what was Huang Zhizhong's love life? He was completely touched by his son's words?
1. People from two worlds
In 1992, a TV series called "Grass by the Green River" quietly landed on the TV channel of Taiwan Province.
Among them, the lingering love and the entangled life experience between the protagonist have successfully captured the hearts of a group of people.
Later, the introduction of this TV series to the mainland has caused a good impact. How influential is this TV series?
An anecdote back then may be able to confirm this incident. That is, after the TV series was broadcast, there were several kindergartens called "Qingqing" for a while.
And the actors who filmed this TV series also became famous, among which He Yin, who played the pomegranate, made a name for himself in the north and south of the river at an extraordinary speed. People call her "Qiong Yao Girl." ”
Compared with He Yin's smooth career, Huang Zhizhong's fate is very difficult.
You must know that Huang Zhizhong's initial ambition was not to be an actor, but a basketball player. He was born in an ordinary family in Tianjin, and with his proud height, he once made some fame in basketball.
But the cruelty of competitive sports is that you don't know when God will take back all your talent.
I have to say that Huang Zhizhong's luck is really not very good, his height stagnates at 1.83 meters, which is too "simple" for a tall basketball player.
And Huang Zhizhong, who was a teenager at the time, did not become a housekeeper player, and after several trade-offs, he naturally became the one who was abandoned.
After "graduating" from the basketball team, Huang Zhizhong entered a long period of confusion.
During this time, he tried to sell coolies in the factory, but the heavy physical labor plunged him into a kind of misery that almost crushed him.
Fortunately, at this time, a friend pointed him out a way, that is, to take the actor exam. After all, the cultural courses in the performing arts industry are really not demanding, and they are just right for Huang Zhizhong, who dropped out of school.
At that time, Huang Zhizhong had no concept of actors, he just wanted to have fun for himself. So at the instigation of his friends, Huang Zhizhong signed up and prepared for the art exam decently.
What everyone didn't expect was that Huang Zhizhong was admitted to the Central Academy of Drama. Everyone said that he had good luck, but only he was confused, what should he do next?
The year was 1991, and his future girlfriend He Yin was filming on the crew of "Grass by the Green River".
The starting point is very different, and their love is probably destined to be a tragedy.
After graduating from university, Huang Zhizhong was assigned to the China Children's Theater.
Objectively speaking, his appearance does not have much advantage in the entertainment industry, so for a long time, he did not have a job to shoot.
And in Beijing, where every inch of land is expensive, there is no additional income, and it is almost impossible to be decent. After all, the income of children's theater has never been high, and the salary is even more pitiful.
is different from the troubled Huang Zhizhong, He Yin is filming at full capacity, her face is printed on the streets and alleys, and she has become the hottest actor at the moment.
Then a crew pulled them together, and this was also the first time Huang Zhizhong met He Yin.
Second, when love sprouts
In 1997, a "Mainlander" gave Huang Zhizhong a chance, and he got one of the small roles, so he could join the group to see and see.
As soon as he entered the group, Huang Zhizhong was stunned by He Yin, who was holding the moon among the stars. He watched the people around him be courteous to He Yin, and an impulse welled up in his heart.
That is, he must chase He Yin and let this fairy become his wife.
After having this idea, Huang Zhizhong said he would do it, and went to chat with He Yin from time to time. Fortunately, in that era, the actors did not have the awareness of rank, so naturally there was no distinction between high and low.
They just treat each other as colleagues, the only difference is the number of scenes. Therefore, they came into contact with each other and were not hindered.
And Huang Zhizhong plays He Yin's husband in this play, although there are not many scenes, but the relationship between them is very close.
It was in this frequent interaction that He Yin found that he also liked Huang Zhizhong. After successfully receiving the signal of the goddess, Huang Zhizhong immediately confessed excitedly.
As a result, the two got together, and everyone knew that they were boyfriend and girlfriend. But no one believed that they would eventually get married. After all, the status of Huang Zhizhong and He Yin is very different.
Others think so, but Huang Zhizhong doesn't. He really hopes that he can marry He Yin and start a family with her.
Therefore, after dating for a period of time, Huang Zhizhong applied for marriage to He Yin.
In traditional culture, if you want to get married, you must go through your parents, so the two of them chose a time to meet He Yin's parents together.
As soon as they saw Huang Zhizhong, He Yin's parents were still more enthusiastic. But after chatting, the old couple expressed their opposition, after all, Huang Zhizhong's career is very sluggish, which is about the same as nothing.
For parents, they definitely don't want their daughter to live with such an ordinary man.
But in the face of his parents' opposition, He Yin showed a "love brain" side.
She thinks that she is very famous, even if Huang Zhizhong does not have a job, she can afford it.
And Huang Zhizhong also expressed his determination in a timely manner, he often went to He Yin's parents' house to help, and gradually let the other party recognize him.
So in 1998, the two got married in Beijing. They don't have a matrimonial house and live in a small rental house.
For them, they have a lot of love and water, and they have a very happy time in the rental house. After becoming husband and wife, He Yin also began to use her connections to introduce jobs to her husband.
And Huang Zhizhong has also conquered countless producers and directors with his acting skills.
Gradually, Huang Zhizhong's career has improved, he does not have to be a family cook in the family, and his era has gradually emerged.
Under such circumstances, Huang Zhizhong and He Yin chose to give birth to the crystallization of their love in 2003 and named Huang Boyuan, which shows their ardent hope.
Confined by traditional thinking, He Yin felt that after her husband improved, she should wash her hands and make soup at home, so their family model gradually changed.
And with that comes new challenges......
3. Sadness after divorce
In 2011, Huang Zhizhong and He Yin chose to divorce. They ended their 13-year relationship and started a new life each.
As for the reason for the divorce of the two of them, many people believe that this comes from Huang Zhizhong's "derailment turmoil".
In 2008, Huang Zhizhong participated in a film "The Right Way in the World is the Vicissitudes of Life".
And in this TV series, Huang Zhizhong and Ke Lan have a lot of rivalry scenes.
They have an extraordinary spark in this TV series.
Perhaps because of this, many media followed and filmed Ke Lan and Huang Zhizhong, trying to dig out one or two from their interactions.
In fact, for a long time, the news of Huang Zhizhong and Ke Lan has not stopped.
But for both of them, it didn't seem to be a problem, so their collaboration continued.
However, for He Yin, it was really a big blow.
Regardless of whether the relationship between her husband and Ke Lan is as the outside world says, she faintly feels insecure.
Of course, He Yin's feeling was not wrong, the original sweetness faded, and the two began to fall into a long quarrel, and finally exhausted each other and chose to divorce.
And after the divorce, the son belonged to He Yin. Therefore, Huang Zhizhong disappeared from his son's life in a sense.
But for the child, how does he understand the meaning of divorce? Once he asked He Yin, "Why is Dad always not at home?"
As soon as this sentence came out, He Yin chose not to look over, and waited for his emotions to calm down before saying to his son, "Dad is busy." ”
Afterwards, this conversation reached Huang Zhizhong's ears, and his heart was suddenly filled with sourness.
Therefore, he chose to quit part of his job and concentrate on accompanying his son to grow up.
Although they are divorced from each other, love is not there, and feelings are still there.
Therefore, He Yin does not object to his son being close to Huang Zhizhong, and they are still living happily as before.
Huang Zhizhong once recalled his divorce, and his heart was full of remorse.
It was difficult for him to accept his momentary whims, which broke such a happy family.
But for He Yin, she has always dared to love and hate, and she is frank, and if she loses, she loses.
Therefore, later, He Yin married Xu Yunfan and renewed his love sweetness.
And although Huang Zhizhong has been single so far, his son's "I love you" also filled the emptiness in his heart.
epilogue
For Huang Zhizhong, every node of his life is almost lucky. From basketball player to actor, his career has always been a breath away.
And his most correct choice is to pursue He Yin. And with her help, the career is thriving.
But in the end, this sincere feeling was lost by Huang Zhizhong himself. Of course, although the relationship is gone, they have a son.
Today's Huang Zhizhong has devoted all his efforts to his son, and maybe one day, his son will return to him and accompany him through the beautiful moments of his life.