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I thought my marriage to my husband was unbreakable. We have been together for more than ten years and have a pair of lovely children. However, as time goes by, our lives gradually fall flat. My husband was busy with work while I was entangled in housework and children. There was little communication, let alone intimacy.
One day, I stumbled upon a suspicious text message on my husband's phone. I opened it by surprise, and it was ambiguous and explicit language. At that moment, my heart fell like an ice cellar. I confronted my husband, but he flatly denied cheating and accused me of being suspicious.
I couldn't believe my husband's lies. I began to follow him and found out that he had a tryst with a young woman. I witnessed them walk hand in hand into a hotel. At that moment, my heart broke.
I confronted my husband, and he finally admitted to cheating. He argued that he felt empty and lonely, and that I had ignored his needs.
I can't understand my husband's betrayal. I thought I was the best person in the world about him, but I didn't know him at all.
I had a heated argument with my husband. I asked him to make a choice, either live well with me or divorce. My husband apologized to me, promised to change, and begged me to give him a chance.
I hesitated. I love my husband and I can't give up on our family. However, I can't forget his betrayal of me.
Just when I was hesitating, I found out that the object of my husband's cheating was pregnant. This news was like a thunderbolt from the blue, and it completely broke me. Feeling betrayed and humiliated, I resolved to divorce.
I filed for divorce from my husband, and he begged me to forgive him, but I was unmoved. I can't accept someone who has betrayed me and hurt our family.
After the divorce, I was stuck in a painful period. I reflected on the reasons behind infidelity and gradually understood the importance of communication and intimacy in marriage.
I spoke to a counsellor for support and guidance. With the help of a counselor, I learned that cheating is not just a betrayal, but a sign of problems in your marriage.
I realized that my husband and I were neglecting each other's needs in our marriage. There is a lack of communication, and intimacy fades. The husband cheated precisely because he felt empty and lonely in his marriage.
After a period of healing, I started a new life focused on my own well-being. I picked up my hobbies again, made new friends, and tried to make myself better.
Years later, my husband and I met again. We are honest with each other and wish each other happiness. While our marriage was irretrievable, we both learned lessons from this experience.
I learned that marriage needs to be managed, it needs communication and intimacy. I will not let anyone hurt me again, and I will no longer put my happiness in others.
The shadow of infidelity may never be erased, but I've learned to forgive myself and my husband. I grew from this experience and became stronger and more independent.
I understand that the road of life is not always smooth, but as long as we have love and hope, we can overcome all obstacles and move towards the other side of happiness.
After the divorce, I went through a long and painful healing process. I can't forget my husband's betrayal, and I can't let go of the damage he caused to our family.
I started to have insomnia, lost my appetite and lost weight. I became anxious and depressed and lost interest in life. The career I was once proud of is also starting to stagnate.
I tried to confide in friends and family, but they couldn't really understand my pain. They advised me to let go of the past and start a new life, but I couldn't.
In the darkest of times, I met Lily, a counselor. Lily listened patiently to me and helped me sort out my emotions and understand my feelings.
Lily told me that the trauma after a derailment takes time to heal. She encouraged me to face up to my emotions and not to suppress or run away. She also taught me some coping skills to help me manage my anxiety and depression.
With Lily's help, I gradually began to emerge from the gloom. I picked up my hobby again, started exercising, and tried to make myself better.
As time went on, I began to reflect on the reasons behind the infidelity. I realized that my husband and I both had problems in our marriages. There is a lack of communication, and intimacy fades.
I understand that it wasn't entirely his fault that my husband cheated. I'm also partly responsible. I was so focused on my career and family that I neglected my husband's emotional needs.
I learned from this experience. I learned the importance of communication and how to manage an intimate relationship.
After years of healing, I finally let go of my husband's betrayal. I understand that he made a bad decision, but I can't let him carry this mistake forever.
I forgave my husband and I forgave myself. I understand that there will inevitably be setbacks and pains in life, but as long as we have love and hope, we can overcome all obstacles and move towards happiness.
Today, I live a full and meaningful life. I have a career that I love, family and friends who love me, and my own purpose in life.
The shadow of infidelity may never be erased, but I've learned to live with it. It reminds me of the pain I have experienced and inspires me to cherish the happiness I have now.
My company grew and I became a successful entrepreneur. I use my stories to inspire others and convince them that even after experiencing betrayal and hurt, they can get back on their feet and live a life to the fullest.
At an industry conference, I met a man whose name was Chen Mo. Chen Mo is an elegant gentleman who was deeply attracted by my story. We had a great conversation and soon fell in love.
Chen Mo knew about my past, but he didn't mind. He respects my experience and is willing to face future challenges with me.
With Chen Mo, I found true happiness. He loved me, pampered me, and made me feel like the most special woman in the world.
We got married and started a new family. My children also accepted Chen Mo and treated him as their own.
I finally have the happy life I dreamed of. I understand that happiness is not something that comes easily, but that it takes ups and downs and tribulations to finally attain.
The experience of cheating changed the course of my life. It has allowed me to grow and made me stronger and more independent. I also learned the meaning of life.
The meaning of life is not how much wealth and status you have, but how much you have experienced and how much love and growth you have gained.
I will continue to inspire others with my stories and help them come out of the gloom and embrace happiness. I believe that with love and hope, everyone can live a wonderful life.