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Double metamorphosis

Tracing Sun Song's past, he came from an artistic family, his father Mr. Sun was a well-known agent in the industry, and his mother Han Ying was a talented Peking Opera stage artist.

Growing up in this rich artistic atmosphere, Sun Song has had a soft spot for music and performing arts since he was a child. Although he once walked in Viai during his studies, he never gave up his dream, was keen on public welfare, and strived to become a person full of positive energy and good conduct.

Just when Sun Song missed out on the Beijing Film Academy and the Central Academy of Drama for two consecutive years, his heart fell into confusion and distress, and he even had doubts about his own ability.

Fortunately, his mother Han Ying has always firmly supported and encouraged him, guiding him out of the trough of life. With the support of his mother, Sun Song regained his confidence and devoted himself wholeheartedly to preparing for the college entrance examination.

He not only devoted himself to mastering the knowledge of the cultural curriculum, but also took his performance skills to a new level by diligently honing the art of Peking Opera. With his outstanding strength, Sun Song was finally admitted to the Beijing Film Academy as he wished, officially starting his wonderful career as an actor.

On the other hand, Hou Jilin's life experience is also tortuous and bizarre. She was born into a family with a strong educational atmosphere, and her father was a skilled art teacher who loved oil painting.

Under the influence of his father, Hou Jilin showed an extraordinary talent for painting from an early age, and dreamed of becoming an excellent painter or pursuing a career in education like his father.

However, the arrangement of fate is often dramatic. After graduating from the provincial key high school, Hou Jilin resolutely cast his eyes on the Fine Arts Department of Shandong University of the Arts.

But her teachers took a fancy to her unparalleled talent and spiritual interpreting ability, which eventually led her to the Drama Department of the Academy of Arts. Although Hou Jilin didn't know anything about acting at that time, she persistently studied and honed, and finally opened a new chapter in her life in this new field.

After graduating, Hou Jilin got a golden opportunity and was recommended by his teacher to Beijing to participate in the filming of the movie "Stewardess". This opened up new heights for her acting career and was also a reward for her perseverance in pursuing her dreams.

From this moment on, Hou Jilin bravely embarked on a new road full of unknowns.

Just when Sun Song participated in "Snow Festival Huangsha Town", the fates of the two were intertwined. A chance encounter in a crew interview became the beginning of their love story.

Absolutely beautiful love

Although it was a chance encounter in the crew, Sun Song and Hou Jilin seemed to have a tacit understanding between the spirits and rhinos, and they fell in love at first sight the moment they looked at each other.

Hou Jilin, who was young and vigorous at the time, suddenly broke into the occasion where Sun Song was discussing the script, and almost missed the opportunity to interview. Her impulsive behavior surprised the staff present, and their faces were full of embarrassment.

But at this moment, Sun Song's eyes were deeply attracted by the aura overflowing in her eyes, and her heart trembled indescribably.

It was as if a mysterious force was pulling them, causing the souls of the two to resonate amazingly. Since then, they have met frequently during the filming process, and gradually become intimate through the process of discussing the script and analyzing the characters again and again.

They attract each other with enthusiasm and tacit understanding, as if two bright stars meet in the vast universe, exuding a brilliant and dazzling light.

Although this is just a fictional theatrical world, the innocent and simple feelings between them are sincere and powerful.

At first, it was just the emotional line in the play, but unconsciously, this affection became more and more sincere and moving. Soon, they fell deeply in love and started a sweet and stable relationship.

The married life is also beautiful and harmonious, and relatives and friends are sincerely happy for them to witness the couple's mutual understanding and sincere love. Even when Sun Song brought Hou Jilin back to his hometown to meet his parents, although Hou Jilin was a little nervous, the warm reception of his grandmother Han Ying quickly made her feel the warmth of home, thus resolving the anxiety in her heart.

Hou Jilin's parents also praised Sun Song's elegant character and good family background, and welcomed this prospective son-in-law. In this way, the two young people received the blessing and support of their families.

In the blink of an eye, in just a few months, they have steadily entered the palace of marriage. The newlywed Yan'er had a sweet and happy life, and the love was enviable.

After the two spent a period of love together, they began to discuss childbirth.

However, as the years passed, Hou Jilin's thoughts quietly changed. She feels that she is on the rise in her career and must not give up on her precious career.

After careful consideration, Hou Jilin made up his mind to postpone childbirth and devote all his energy to his acting career.

Give up childbearing

After careful consideration, Hou Jilin finally made up his mind to postpone childbirth and devote all his energy to his career. While this decision may have disappointed her family, she is confident that she is on the rise in her career and must not give up on her precious career.

For his wife's decision, Sun Song showed great understanding and support. As a good man who really loves his wife, he knows the pain of childbirth and understands Hou Jilin's concerns very well.

Even the elders in the family hope to hug their lovely grandchildren as soon as possible, but Sun Songdu is resolutely unwilling to force his wife, but fully supports her in pursuing her career ideals.

When he was young, Hou Jilin made up his mind to become a powerful actor with ingenuity and shine his own light in this field. With Sun Song's unexpected understanding and strong support, she can finally pursue her ideals without any worries.

At the same time, Sun Song also used his actions to interpret what sincere love is - love is not bondage, but mutual understanding and support.

Sun Song treats his wife like a child. At home, he always takes care of household chores and cooks delicious meals for the whole family. And Hou Jilin smiled cutely, like the innocent girl in the old days.

It is this considerate mode of getting along that allows the two to build an enviable happy marriage.

They used their actions to resolve the common marital problem of childbirth, showing a deep understanding and appreciation for each other. In the show, Sun Song even clarified his point of view: "An 'ugly' marriage is far less precious than going hand in hand with each other and growing together."

It can be seen that they have gone through the difficulties of this married life with mutual understanding and support.

Philosophical implications

Through the story of Sun Song and Hou Jilin, we can get a glimpse of the philosophical inspiration of a happy married life: mutual understanding, respect and support are the cornerstones of a happy marriage.

On the one hand, Sun Song used his actions to show the image of a sincere and considerate husband. In the face of his wife's determination to pursue her career, he not only fully supported it, but also took care of all the chores at home and supporting his parents, creating a safe and focused work environment for Hou Jilin.

This love for his wife is very touching.

On the other hand, Hou Jilin also repaid her husband's love in her own way. Although Sun Song never cared about her small problems of not taking care of housework, Hou Jilin showed extraordinary talent and responsibility in cooking and filial piety to her in-laws, and she and her husband loved and accompanied each other very tacitly.

Her support for Sun Song's career is also meticulous, and she can be described as a model couple.

The two told us with their actions: It is not the fault of the wife who wants to pursue a career, the key is whether the husband is tolerant and supportive; In the same way, wives should strive to achieve self-worth instead of spending all their energy on household affairs.

Only when both sides maintain a high degree of consistency in their ideas and work together can they complete the long road.

Some people say that Sun Song and Hou Jilin are a "leftover" couple because they actively chose not to have children. But in fact, the couple gave to each other without regrets, and they have long surpassed the shackles and doubts of being born.

The reason why they are praised as a model couple is precisely because they understand each other, respect each other's pursuits, and resolve differences with tolerance.

This high level of mutual respect and understanding is the cornerstone of their happy married life. They explain to us a new philosophy of marriage with their actions - the essence of marriage is not whether to have children or not, but whether both parties can build a life of mutual harmony with tolerance and support.

Only by nourishing each other with pure love can a marriage last forever and be in love forever.

In general, Sun Song and Hou Jilin used sincere love and practical actions to show us a model of a happy marriage worthy of reference. They explained to people what it means to build a happy marriage with mutual understanding and support.