When night fell, at the beginning of the day, a middle-aged couple, Li Ming and Chen Fang, were sitting leisurely on the sofa at home, sharing the joys, sorrows and sorrows of the day. Their eyes met, full of each other's affection and tacit understanding.
"How's your work today? Chen Fang gently stroked the back of Li Ming's hand and asked with concern.
Li Ming sighed softly, leaned back on the sofa, and said, "It's true that I'm a little tired, but the thought of being able to go home and see you makes me feel that everything is worth it." ”
After hearing this, a sweet smile appeared on Chen Fang's face, and she approached Li Ming and gently snuggled up to his shoulder.
"You know what? I think the love between us is like an invisible force that allows us to face the ups and downs of life together. Chen Fang said softly.
Li Ming nodded and said with deep feeling: "Yes, our love is not only an emotion, but also a force that supports each other and grows together. ”
Just as they were immersed in each other's deep affection, Li Ming suddenly remembered something, he sat up straight, and said to Chen Fang seriously: "Actually, I have always felt that if husband and wife want to maintain long-term affection, they need to achieve the 'three precepts'. ”
Chen Fang raised her head curiously and asked, "Oh, what about the 'three precepts'?"
Li Ming smiled and explained: "The first precept is to quit indifference and alienation. Between husband and wife, the most feared thing is the spiritual distance. We must always maintain care and consideration for each other, so that love flows in the bits and pieces of life. ”
After hearing this, Chen Fang nodded with deep feeling and said, "It's true, indifference and alienation will slowly erode our feelings and make each other's hearts farther and farther apart. ”
Li Ming continued: "The second precept is to abstain from quarrels and conflicts. It is inevitable that there will be disagreements between husband and wife, but we must learn to use reason and tolerance to resolve conflicts, rather than making quarrels the norm in our lives. ”
Chen Fang agreed: "Yes, arguing will only make both parties more tired, and it is easy to hurt each other's feelings. We should learn to listen to and understand each other's ideas and solve problems in a peaceful way. ”
Li Ming finally said: "The third precept is to abstain from greed and selfishness. Husbands and wives are a whole, and we should work together for the happiness and prosperity of the family, not only for our own interests. ”
After hearing this, Chen Fang said with emotion: "You are right, greed and selfishness will only make us narrow-minded and selfish, and true love needs us to pay and cherish together." ”
In the process of talking about the "three precepts", the two of them became more and more comfortable, and they seemed to have found a new way to maintain the relationship between husband and wife. And in this process, they also unconsciously showed the five postures of husband and wife love.
The first posture is to listen to each other. When Li Ming was talking about his understanding of the "Three Precepts", Chen Fang listened attentively and nodded in agreement from time to time. This kind of listening not only made Li Ming feel respected and understood, but also made their communication smoother.
The second posture is to support each other. When talking about how to quit apathy and alienation, Li Ming mentioned Chen Fang's care and support when he was busy with work. This kind of support not only makes Li Ming more motivated in his work, but also deepens their feelings.
The third posture is sharing. They reminisced about the little things in life together, and shared each other's joys, sorrows, and sorrows. This kind of sharing not only brings their feelings closer but also makes their lives more colorful.
The fourth posture is to respect each other. When talking about how to get rid of quarrels and conflicts, both said that they should respect each other's opinions and ideas, and not lose their temper or blame each other easily. This respect not only avoids unnecessary quarrels, but also makes their relationship more harmonious.
The fifth posture is hand in hand. When talking about how to stop greed and selfishness, they expressed their determination to work together for the future of their families. This hand-in-hand gesture not only makes them stronger in the face of difficulties, but also makes their love stronger.
Late at night, the loving couple was still sitting on the couch, and their conversation continued. Their every movement, every look was filled with deep love for each other. And the five postures of husband and wife love and the "three precepts" principle they show not only make their relationship more stable, but also lay a solid foundation for their future life.
On this night of love, Li Ming and Chen Fang's hearts are more closely connected. They know that as long as they support each other and abide by the "three precepts" principle together, their love will be able to withstand the test of time and maintain that original innocence and beauty forever.
Such a night, for them, is ordinary and extraordinary. Because here, they not only found each other, but also found the true meaning of love and the wisdom of getting along as husband and wife. And this wisdom will accompany them through every spring, summer, autumn and winter, forever.