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"Inheritance" has been the top priority in life since ancient times, and even in ancient times, "no queen" was listed as a woman's seven sins.

But with the development of society, people's minds are becoming more and more open-minded, and by the 80s, such a group of people called "Dinks" appeared.

As the name suggests, it is that the husband and wife do not want children for the rest of their lives, but at that time it seemed very ridiculous, and it was difficult to provide for the elderly.

And now that the first batch of "Dink" have retired, is their life in their later years really as unbearable as people say?

The "Dinks" began to rise

Before the birth of the Dink, people's thinking has always been based on the concept of "inheritance" and "more children and more blessings", which in their eyes is not only a kind of inheritance of family incense.

At the same time, it is also a kind of guarantee for one's own life after getting old, which is not a bad thing to a certain extent, and it is not unreasonable to "raise children to prevent old age".

Decades ago, most people came over like this, but I don't know when the idea of "Dink" began to be introduced to China.

The time should probably be in the 80s of the last century, and many young people at that time were also deeply influenced by this kind of thinking.

The way of thinking in Western countries has always been in an open state, and the word "enjoyment" is far more important in their concept than children.

When this kind of thinking was introduced to China, it was sought after by many intellectuals, who did not want to be bound by their children, so they became the "first batch of Dink" in China at that time.

When they made up their minds, they must have been pressured from all sides, but it still didn't work, and it turned out that life without children was very good.

The husband and wife are well fed, the whole family is not hungry, and they don't have to be busy all their lives for the sake of future generations, but now that more than 40 years have passed, are their lives okay?

What is the current situation of the Dinks?

According to their age, they should be 60 years old, and at this time, their peers are full of children and grandchildren.

And they are still lonely old people, can they not envy them? Presumably, there must be some, and even worse, life in old age may not be easy.

If there is nothing wrong with the body, it is okay to say that the husband and wife are full and not hungry every day with a pension, and they can go out to the park when they are free.

But once there is any trouble, what can be solved with the legs and feet of the old couple, I am afraid that if you are hospitalized, you may be cold before you want to eat a hot meal.

However, this is only one aspect, and it is also possible to face the incomprehension of the family, as well as the cold family atmosphere during the New Year's holidays.

Since he chose "Dink" when he was young, he had to endure "loneliness" when he was old, and this loneliness was not only the loneliness of having no children and no daughters, but also the loneliness of the other half of the future who died alone.

Then there is the issue of old-age care, some people may think that they say "nursing home", and some descendants who do not accept the elderly still send their parents to nursing homes.

But have you ever thought about the embarrassment of "breaking bones and connecting tendons", no matter how bad it is, there are often relatives visiting, and when you sit with a group of old brothers and sisters, you talk about the excellence of your children, but you can't interject a word.

All aspects of this are important, whether or not you can accept such a life in old age before this, even Kang Hui, who we are familiar with, also regrets it bluntly!

Kang Hui bluntly said that he regretted being a "Dink"

As a CCTV host, Kang Hui's career is undoubtedly successful, but such an outstanding person did not leave a son and a daughter.

thinks that his marriage with his wife Liu Yajie was also very optimistic, but because the two worked at CCTV together, they did not have extra time to take care of their children.

In addition, the two of them are also very ambitious, which led to the fact that the husband and wife unanimously decided not to have children, but is this kind of life really what they and their parents want?

But as he grew older and his parents grew older, Kang Hui understood more and more the importance of his children and grandchildren to the family, and he couldn't help but regret his decision when he was young.

It wasn't until later on a show that Kang Hui expressed the process of his mother's uremia and had to undergo hemodialysis three times a week.

can imagine the degree of pain in this, but in the end, he unfortunately passed away in 2018, and in the end he still expressed his parents' regrets.

It can be seen that even dazzling stars will be deeply troubled by family matters, let alone ordinary people like us.

When a situation like this doesn't tell the whole story, some people may regret it and some people may not. Like the well-known singer Li Jian, an example of who will not regret it.

Don't look at the two of them without children, but this is the result they want, and they have been married for many years and have maintained a sweet state.

From time to time, he even shows his affection on social platforms, which is really envious of others!

And the other singer is the same Dink, but he is not because he covets the "two-person world" between husband and wife.

In his opinion, he is not sure whether he can educate his children well, as he himself said: "I am not sure that this child will be educated to be a good person, a person of sound character." ”

It may sound nonsensical, but Century is clearer than some people who are born but do not raise. It is better not to take him into the world and scribble him into the world and achieve nothing in his life.

On the other hand, it can be regarded as a responsible performance, just like Yang Liping has no children and no daughters in her life, but she is still very chic.

It may seem incomprehensible to some people, but this does not mean the whole story, it mainly depends on the individual's ability to bear it.

As long as you decide to "Dink" after thinking about everything you may face later when you are young, there is nothing to say about it in your later years, and it is already too late to regret it in your later years.

There is such a young couple on the Internet who have no children, but it seems that the relationship between the two has faded with it.

Even the usual meals are so silent, just looking at the atmosphere is very uncomfortable

Everyone only has one life, and what they should do in life is a personal choice, and there is no one in life who does not regret it.

The important thing is how you should look at it, as long as you like it and don't interfere with others, there is nothing to say!

Resources:

China's first batch of Dink families have entered their old age-Xinhuanet

The current situation of the first batch of Dink couples was exposed, and the "sequelae" appeared: now do they regret it?

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