What kind of power can make a CCTV host who has achieved a successful career and a bright future willingly give up everything in China and go to another country in order to marry an old American man who is 20 years older than himself?

What kind of obsession made her unwilling to divorce him in the desperate situation of being abused by this husband's domestic violence and starving to death, and she held on to this "ridiculed marriage"?

In the long night of being violent, imprisoned, and deprived of food and clothing, what kind of vicissitudes and distortions will her inner world experience?

Why did a life that should have bloomed gorgeously fall into such an absurd and distorted quagmire of fate?

Everything can often start with an ordinary day. Cao Qing, who was born in rural Jiangsu, has experienced the poverty and backwardness of her family since she was a child. Her parents have been working outside the home for many years, and she can only be at home alone with the ridicule and staring back and forth.

"A wild child without mom and dad!" The words of his former classmates gradually left a stain in Cao Qing's heart.

But it is precisely because of this feeling that Cao Qing sprouted a fighting spirit to work hard. She began to study hard, and fought back against the ridicule and discrimination with excellent grades.

The hard work paid off, and Cao Qing was finally admitted to Beijing Broadcasting Institute and started her dream of being a host. She had a bright future, and her career was rising, and she soon joined CCTV's interview and hosting team and became a star host in the station.

Unexpectedly, just when his career reached its peak, the appearance of a Chinese-American doctor completely changed the trajectory of Cao Qing's fate in the second half of her life.

Cao Qing, who was over 30 years old at the time, has always been worried about lifelong events. Although she is not happy with suitors, she is always critical of those people. At this time, Dr. Tu Zhongheng, a doctor with a lot of money, appeared in her life.

This old man, who was twenty years older, launched a crazy and decisive pursuit of Cao Qing. He gave her expensive gifts, was careful and thoughtful, and was tolerant of Cao Qing's little temper and open-mouthedness.

Cao Qing's original sharp-edged and straightforward personality slowly softened her heart in Tu Zhongheng's crazy infatuation. Compared with the poor background, the wealth of the old man in front of her is enough for her to live a carefree and carefree life.

In this way, despite the opposition of relatives and friends, Cao Qing still came together with Tu Zhongheng and started a "ridiculed" marriage.

In 2015, the two held a grand wedding in the capital, invited a well-known artist to host, and threw millions of dollars to celebrate a romantic night. That night, Cao Qing was so happy that she almost flew up, she was convinced that she had married the right person, and her future life would be full of food and arrogance.

No one could have imagined that this was just the beginning. Just after the honeymoon period after marriage, behind Tu Zhongheng's seemingly amiable face, there were scenes of terrifying conspiracy and brutality.

The two, who were quite warm at first, soon quarreled over fertility issues. Cao Qing was anxious to have a child, for fear that her husband's health would be in trouble. But when she asked again and again, Tu Zhongheng finally confessed that he couldn't have children at all!

Cao Qing was dumbfounded, she accused Tu Zhongheng of deceiving herself. In the face of his wife's questioning and pleading, Tu Zhongheng actually went against his previous gentlemanly demeanor, and waved his hand to slap Cao Qing's face, beating her almost unconscious.

Since then, Tu Zhongheng's violent abuse of Cao Qing has been unscrupulously staged at home. He would chop pots and smash scoops, and beat Cao Qing so badly that he was bruised all over his body and his head was bleeding. Cao Qing's cries and begs for mercy were like a distant and faint sound of wind to him.

After being beaten again and again, Tu Zhongheng would put on a kind old man's face and instill some hypocritical remarks to Cao Qing: "I am an education of love, I hope you can reform and be a good wife." "

In this way, in the repeated cycle of panic and abuse, Cao Qing's spirit and life are on the verge of collapse. In order to prevent his wife from seeking medical treatment, Tu Zhongheng even imposed a harsh "imprisonment" on her at home, not allowing her to go out for half a step.

He did not allow Cao Qing to go out to work, and Cao Qing, who had lost her financial resources, ate expired food and could only use one pack of sanitary napkins a year. Cao Qing was skinny, malnourished, and lived almost as much as "servitude".

In 2017, with the help of relatives and friends, Cao Qing mustered up the courage to take Tu Zhongheng to court, accusing him of abusing him for long-term abuse. During the trial, Cao Qing cried bitterly and begged the judge for help, crying "I need food!" Cao Qing's experience sparked heated discussions among netizens, some sympathized with Cao Qing, and some thought that she was to blame and suffered by herself.

However, surprisingly, despite such abuse, Cao Qing rejected the divorce recommended by the judge, insisted on staying in the United States, and hoped that her husband would mend his ways. In the face of doubts, Cao Qing scolded Chinese netizens for being "inhumane", and she would rather be a dog in the United States than return to China.

From resigning from CCTV to being abused after marriage, and then refusing to divorce, Cao Qing's series of behaviors are full of contradictions, making it impossible for the outside world to understand her true intentions. Some analysts said that the reason why Cao Qing was reluctant to divorce was probably to obtain a U.S. green card.

To this day, it is impossible to know what Cao Qing's situation is. However, her experience has taught a profound lesson: marriage needs to think twice, and must not make a big mistake on the spur of the moment; At the same time, we must also learn to be independent and not under the fence. Only by staying sober and rational and staying away from vanity and greed can we avoid repeating Cao Qing's mistakes.

Cao Qing's experience has aroused widespread concern and heated discussions in the society. Some netizens condemned and ridiculed her approach, thinking that she was self-inflicted, and she had already been persuaded by family and friends but turned a deaf ear, obsessively marrying an old man 20 years older than her, and it was normal for her to suffer such a miserable end in the end.

"I was trying to live a good life, but now I can't eat enough and dress warmly, and it's no wonder if I'm not stupid. "The applause is invited, and it is self-inflicted. "If you give up all your Chinese nationality, how can you have the face to return to China?

Some netizens expressed sympathy for Cao Qing's plight, believing that although she was wrong, she did not deserve such abuse.

"It's really fateful to be a so-so person and cause such a catastrophe. "

"I feel sorry for Cao Qing, people die for money, birds die for food, it's not worth it. "

"I wish her to get through the difficulties and regain her happiness. "

It is worth mentioning that Cao Qing's refusal to divorce after being subjected to domestic violence for many years has made more people think that she is "to be crazy" and "delusional".

Netizens have speculated about the reason:

It must be for the sake of the green card, and you can continue to enjoy immigration treatment without divorce.

If you don't leave, you can divide more property.

I was afraid that my husband would stop paying living expenses as soon as he divorced, so he didn't divorce.

Some people say that she is true love, don't take love too superficially.

Who knows what's going on in her head, people are just so weird.

For a time, public opinion was in an uproar. The media and experts have also commented and interpreted Cao Qing's experience and her divorce decision in many ways:

"Marriage is a matter of two people, and it is difficult for outsiders to comment on right and wrong. "

Such troublesome incidents reflect the typical dilemma of some women in marriage. "

Cao Qing is obviously an abused person, but she pursues this marriage to the extreme, which is a bit blind and ridiculous. "

In fact, she is desperate, and now her immigration status and economic income are all dependent on her husband, and she can only hope that her husband will turn over a new leaf. "

"It's okay to divorce according to the legal process, but if you want to get more property and put yourself in a desperate situation, you are a bit self-conscious. "

It can be said that Cao Qing's series of behaviors have undoubtedly brought great thought to society: what supports her tireless pursuit of happiness in the shadow of domestic violence?

What kind of power game and interest entanglement are hidden behind love?

Should impulsiveness be lifelong in the heat of the moment?

All this confusion finally pointed to Cao Qing herself. Her remarks such as "America is heaven", "even if you are a dog in the United States, you will not get divorced", and "you are all untouchables" all reveal some blind spots in her heart that she thinks highly of herself and is short-sighted.

In their eyes, giving up everything in China and going to other places to pursue fame and fortune is the highest pursuit of life. Even if her marriage is mired in the quagmire, even if she is on the verge of a catastrophe, she will hold on to this illusory "status" and "glory".

It wasn't until the truth of the matter was revealed that people found out that Cao Qing's series of measures were actually to obtain a U.S. green card. She was opportunistic, not hesitating to sacrifice her hue and dignity, but in the end she fell into the lowest point of her life, which can be called self-inflicted.

If you don't experience wind and rain, you don't know that your home is good. was abused by the man like that, and he was unwilling to divorce, Cao Qing's approach is really incomprehensible!

People always have to pay the price for their words and deeds, people have no long-term concerns, there will be near-term worries, heaven may not be your paradise, poor people must have something to hate.

So, what do you have to say?

References:

The former CCTV hostess was abused after marrying the United States, eating expired food, and using a pack of sanitary napkins for a year

Resigned CCTV married a 20-year-old American billionaire, and after marriage, he was beaten and ate leftovers and died without divorce, what is happening now