On the day of the wedding, the bride asked for 8,008 to get off the bus, and the man dragged out of the wedding car: If you don't get married, return my bride price
On that sunny morning, it was supposed to be a joyous wedding scene, but there was a strong smell of gunpowder. The two people who were supposed to walk into the marriage hall hand in hand, but because of a sudden dispute, the wedding became embarrassing and embarrassing.
The groom's name is Li Qiang, a simple and hard-working young man who has finally gained a foothold in the city after years of hard work.
The bride's name is Wang Ting, she looks sweet, but her personality is a little squeamish. The two met at a friend party, Li Qiang fell in love with Wang Ting at first sight, and after a period of pursuit, the two finally entered the palace of marriage.
However, on the day of the wedding, everything that seemed good suddenly turned sour. According to local customs, when the bride arrives at the groom's door, the groom needs to pay a certain drop-off fee, which means the bride's dignity and auspiciousness. This custom has been practiced in the local area for many years, and everyone is accustomed to it.
However, when Wang Ting was sitting in the wedding car, waiting for Li Qiang to pay the exit fee, she suddenly opened her mouth and asked Li Qiang to pay 8,0808 getting off the fare. This number is undoubtedly a lot of money for Li Qiang. He originally thought that the drop-off fee was just a symbolic red envelope, but he didn't expect Wang Ting to make such a high request.
Li Qiang felt very embarrassed, he felt that he had paid a lot for this wedding, including buying a house, buying a car, preparing for the wedding, etc., and almost spent all his savings. Now Wang Ting suddenly made such a request, which made him feel very dissatisfied and angry.
He tried to communicate with Wang Ting, hoping that she would understand his situation, but Wang Ting insisted on his opinion, believing that Li Qiang should pay the fee for her face and dignity. The dispute between the two became more and more intense, and the people around them began to talk about it.
Li Qiang finally couldn't bear it anymore, he slammed open the door of the wedding car and dragged Wang Ting out. His face was pale, and he said in a cold tone: "Don't get out, return my bride price!" After speaking, he turned around and left the scene, leaving Wang Ting alone in the wind.
The wedding ended in an awkward and embarrassing way. What was supposed to be a festive feast turned out to be a mess by a sudden dispute. The people around were talking about the farce of the wedding, and the relationship between Li Qiang and Wang Ting was seriously tested.
Afterwards, Li Qiang calmed down, and he began to reflect on his actions. He knew that what he was doing was indeed impulsive and excessive, but he also felt that he was not wrong.
He thinks that Wang Ting made such a request on the wedding day, which is a kind of disrespect and incomprehension for him, he feels that he has paid a lot for this wedding, but Wang Ting only seems to care about his own face and interests.
Wang Ting felt very aggrieved and sad. She felt that she had done nothing wrong and had just made a reasonable request in accordance with local custom. She believes that Li Qiang should respect her wishes and choices, instead of being so rude and rude to her on the wedding day.
The rift between the two grows deeper, they begin a cold war and estrangement, and what should have been a good marriage becomes precarious because of this dispute.
However, behind this dispute, we should also see a deeper problem, that marriage is a process of mutual support and understanding between two people, not a simple transaction or ceremony.
If there are already barriers to communication and understanding between two people before marriage, then the marriage is destined to be full of ups and downs and contradictions.
When we choose a partner, we should pay more attention to the qualities and character of the other person, rather than just looking at external conditions and material interests. At the same time, in married life, we should also learn to respect and understand each other, and when we encounter problems, we should communicate openly and negotiate to solve them, rather than adopting excessive behaviors and attitudes.
For Li Qiang and Wang Ting, they should calm down and communicate well, find out the root cause of the problem and try to solve it. If they can let go of their worries and prejudices and re-examine each other's strengths and weaknesses, they may be able to rebuild their trust and affection for each other. After all, marriage is a lifelong event that requires two people to work together and operate.
Although this wedding ended in a farce, it also brought us profound revelations. Marriage is not a simple ceremony or transaction, but a long-term process that requires mutual respect, understanding and support from two people. We should face the challenges and difficulties in marriage and life with a more mature and rational attitude.