Now, whenever someone asks me if I want a divorce, I don't answer.
It's very simple - marriage is everyone's own business, and the future brought by all choices has to be borne by herself.
Also, those who really plan to divorce leave quietly, how can they let others make decisions.
So, multiple-choice questions, do it yourself.
It's like when I was younger, someone always took me to check on their boyfriends.
I don't usually give advice, as long as it's not too out of line, I'm silent. No matter how good he is, I won't say that this man must be married.
Marriage is a pair of shoes, only you know whether they are suitable or not.
And this period of love is nothing in the long river of marriage, it is easy to disguise, but it is not easy to persist.
For some men, getting married is like graduating from love, and the residual warmth of love for you is faster than a hot water bottle that is not kept warm.
Therefore, advice for young people: with a high probability, marriage is to open a blind box, you can have expectations, and you must also be psychologically prepared.
Why do middle-aged people nowadays seem to be more and more indifferent to marriage?
This kind of indifference is not lying flat, but disappointed, but you really feel - you can't find the person who can talk with you, make progress together, and grow together.
Widowhood is not counted, but it is a drag and is definitely top-notch.
You tell him, should we go out and play?
He told you, you just decide, I'll follow.
You tell him, do you want your child to go to a certain interest class?
He told you, I don't know, you just decide.
You tell him, do you want to buy something for your child?
He told you, you just go buy it, I don't object.
But if you say it again: "Why don't you speak, why don't you have an idea." ”
He told you in righteous words: "How dare I say it? I will say one more thing, what if you say that I am strong, what if you say that I have no respect for you." ”
How? Have you ever won him?
He has said both the right and the back, what else do you have to say.
Frankly speaking, in marriage, it is the person who worries about it who has a hard time.
Housework does not belong to men, nor to women, and belongs to the person who can't stand it; child-rearing does not belong to men, does not belong to women, and belongs to the person who has love for children; and it is also necessary to worry about it, and whoever wants to live a quality life has to worry more.
If you want to say that you can go on, it seems that you can really get by; there is no cheating, no eating, drinking, prostitution, gambling, no pornography, gambling and drugs, and people still advise you to be more tolerant.
If you want to say that you can't go on, you really think about it more, the kind that can kill people, scratching your ears and scratching your cheeks, one head and two big.
If you want to say that this is bitter, you really can't say it, and you can't say enough about it.
Therefore, when someone asks me if I want to live, the ultimate answer is "do you want to live".
Those who are willing to live have reasons to live willingly;
There are reasons why I don't want to go down.
There's nothing wrong with that, only willingness.
Men and women think differently about marriage.
Exceptions are not excluded, most men do not care about the details of marriage, while women have certain requirements for the quality of marriage, so they will form two-way internal friction with each other. Once these are condensed, there is a danger of explosion at any time.
There is nothing wrong with that, there are pros and cons to everything.
No marriage can stand up to scrutiny. But one thing is for sure – that is, live the way you think you can get by, and as for the opinions on the outside, they can't compare to what you think is appropriate or not.
After all, in marriage, you are the protagonist, and your feelings are really more important than anyone else, and no one can replace them.