In the park, there is a group of children frolicking, and they have climbed to the top of the slide with great difficulty.
Take the slide and come down as soon as you smoke it.
There are also children who want to stop halfway down the slide, but can't do anything about it.
It turns out that when you sit on a slide and start sliding down, you can only slide to the end, and it is difficult to stop.
This is the law of the slide - once a person wants to go to a lower place, it will be faster than imagined, and it is easier to collapse.
As a retired senior, if you feel that you can completely let yourself go, you will soon sit on the invisible "slide" and completely go to the other side of working life.
There is a good saying: "Dead fish go with the flow, and live fish swim upstream." ”
Admittedly, low-level habits, easy to learn, are also abolishing some retired seniors.
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A low-level life, muddy.
There is a commercial street near my house, and there is a lot of people on the first floor, but there are many people on the second floor.
In order to attract customers, several escalators were installed from the first to the second floor. There is an advertisement, every day at 8 o'clock in the morning, go to the second floor, you can have a free egg. Sometimes it's a very cheap piece of tofu.
When the old people heard the news, they flocked to it.
The second floor is also lively.
Of course, there are also some elderly people who complain that because one piece of tofu is not enough for one meal, they have to buy a second piece of tofu at the original price. So, many old people made up orders, in groups of two, and took turns.
There are many similar situations, there are business lectures, as long as you listen to it, you can get a free toothbrush, toothpaste, etc.
One lecture, several hours, or even an entire morning.
There are also some unscrupulous merchants who send tours. When the old people arrived at the tourist spot, they said, "We don't include tickets." Therefore, the old man has to pay for it.
All kinds of routines are not new, but the old people are very favored.
The saddest thing is that some retired old people don't like this, but when they see the old people in their neighbors, they are like this, so it is a matter of course.
Every day, in order to take advantage of a little advantage, we have a lot of fun, waste time, and there is a trend of "blind obedience".
What attracts the elderly to live a low-level life is a routine: barrier-free.
There are no obstacles to stepping into a low-level life. But I don't know that this is already a cognitive disorder, and I have entered the trap of others again and again, and I have lost the cognition of being myself.
It's undoubtedly a tragedy to pay every day for a lifestyle you don't like.
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Low-level hobbies that ruin the image.
I've seen the idea that a person crawls on the ground and feels embarrassed. When a group of people climb together, it becomes justified.
Nowadays, there are many elderly people who crawl and exercise, and they also shout slogans together, which can stretch for hundreds of meters.
It is understandable to find a place with few people, climb a few laps, and not get in the way of others. In a big park, it's annoying to block everyone's way and climb hard.
There are also those who occupy the driveway and carry out rampage, forcibly evict the young people and turn the basketball court into a square dance area, in the community, drive the children away so that the elderly can dance, and turn up the music to the deafening sound and then the old people get high...... The image and quality of the old man are obviously not very good.
Regarding playing mahjong, there are pros and cons. But not all of them are suitable. For example, if an elderly person with heart disease is addicted to mahjong, because of a good hand of cards, he loses a lot of money, which will cause him to be excited, and the consequences are very serious.
The "Jingchu Network" platform tells the story of an old man named Daddy Zhang, who is in his sixties, and his biggest hobby is mahjong. But everyone found that he fainted and convulsed five times in the mahjong parlor in two months. According to the doctor, he had epilepsy ten years ago, and playing mahjong will further induce the condition.
Think about how worrying it is for an old man to suddenly fall to the ground while playing mahjong. If there are three long and two short, the people at the same table have to be responsible.
When the hobby of the elderly disrupts public order, "uncle, aunt" becomes a derogatory term.
When you are retired, you do need to have hobbies, but you don't need low-level hobbies, you have to make specific decisions according to your body and the surrounding public environment.
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Low-level language, unspoken.
In the workplace, some big men get together, and occasionally there are some "yellow jokes".
If you are a boss, you also say these things, it is obviously out of place and very cheap.
Fortunately, the rules in the workplace have made those who are open-mouthed a lot more restrained.
After retirement, the rules don't work. Some elderly people began to talk nonsense, even complaining about society, and accusing the people around them at will. I didn't think about it at all, and I used to be the director and section chief.
As the saying goes, "He who is wrong is not human." ”
I can't tell right from wrong, and I still open my mouth to come, which undoubtedly adds negative energy to the family and society.
Habitually refute people, and always think that because you are experienced, everyone will listen to you.
If the old man also spreads rumors, he will also be punished, and even the image of the original unit will be destroyed.
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When people are old, they still have to be positive.
"The water flows low, and the people go high. "When people live, they must insist on going up, even if they can't walk, they can't go to the top of the mountain, but they can also keep their spirit up.
Retirement is actually the second spring of life.
Everywhere is a bright spring scene, and everything is vigorous. In the spring, people rush to the scorching summer and the harvest of autumn.
Specifically, it is recommended that the elderly do this: develop hobbies with positive energy, and at the same time do not hinder others, even if they want to dance, they should lower the soundtrack and find a suitable place; continue to read and pick up their mobile phones to study, instead of watching garbage videos at will; take the initiative to help the weak around them, and accumulate virtue and blessings for their children and grandchildren......
There is no absolute standard for being gregarious or unsocial, but after retirement, you must stay away from low-level groups, refuse to step on watermelon peels, and slide wherever you go.
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In the Book of Songs, it is said: "The mountains look up, and the scenery stops." ”
When people are old, they still have to look up to the mountains and climb the peaks.
When I retired, my career reached the top, and then I retired, but life goes on, and people's upbringing needs to be improved. How can it be a thousand miles away?
The people around you call you "Uncle and Aunt", and they treat you as an adult.
is an elder, and it must be worthy of everyone to "look forward to the horse".
Author: Cloth Clothes Coarse Food.
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