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My name is Zhang Na, and I have been married to my husband Wang Lei for three years. In the past three years, we have had sweetness and quarrels, but recently, our marriage has lit up a red light.
We often quarrel over small things, and they are getting more and more frequent and intense. I feel that Wang Lei is becoming more and more cold to me, and even began to stay home at night. I was full of uneasiness, but I didn't know what to do.
Until that day, her mother-in-law Li Cuiying suddenly came to the door and asked Wang Lei if he had cheated.
My mother-in-law saw my pain and took out a stack of chat records and transfer records, which clearly recorded the adultery between Wang Lei and Li Lin. I could no longer deceive myself and could only accept this cruel truth.
At that moment, I felt like the sky was going to fall. I couldn't believe that my husband and best friend had cheated on me. I questioned Li Lin, but she flatly denied it, and said that it was me and my mother-in-law who framed her.
I pulled out the chat and transfer history and asked her why she was lying. She quibbled that those chat records were all forged by Wang Lei, and the transfer records were also given to her by Wang Lei on his own initiative in order to please her.
I trembled with her shamelessness. The mother-in-law was also furious and came up with more evidence to expose Li Lin's lies. Seeing that the lie was exposed, Li Lin finally revealed her true colors and scolded me and my mother-in-law.
My mother-in-law was so angry that she had a heart attack, and I quickly called an ambulance. In the hospital, I watched my mother-in-law lying on the hospital bed, full of guilt and self-blame. I'm sorry for my mother-in-law for letting her suffer for me.
After Li Lin was exposed by her mother-in-law, she was annoyed and angry, and even came up with evidence to prove that she was also a victim of Wang Lei's cheating. She said that Wang Lei pedaled two boats and had an affair with her and me at the same time.
I was shocked and couldn't believe that Wang Lei was so despicable and shameless. I questioned Wang Lei, and he finally admitted his mistake and apologized to me and my mother-in-law.
I felt like I was falling into the abyss, and the endless darkness swallowed me. I couldn't believe that two people I once loved so hard could hurt me so hard.
The evidence Li Lin presented made me confused and suspicious. I can't tell whether what Li Lin said is true or false, and I can't be sure whether Wang Lei is really stepping on two boats.
Wang Lei saw that I was shaken, and hurriedly explained to me, saying that he only loved me alone, and he and Li Lin were just playing on the spot. He swore that he would never betray me again.
I hesitated and didn't know who to trust. On the one hand, Wang Lei is my beloved husband, and I don't want to lose him, and on the other hand, Li Lin has been my best friend for many years, and I can't believe that she would betray me.
I was in a dilemma, unable to forgive Wang Lei's betrayal and unable to believe Li Lin's accusations. I began to reflect on the fidelity and betrayal of marriage, and the trust and exploitation of friendship.
Marriage is sacred, and fidelity is the foundation of marriage. Wang Lei betrayed me, just like ruining our marriage with his own hands. I can't forgive him for what he did, and I can't continue to live with him.
Friendship is precious, and trust is the cornerstone of friendship. Li Lin betrayed me, it was like a stab in my heart. I couldn't trust her and couldn't be friends with her anymore.
After careful consideration, I decided to forgive Wang Lei, but I couldn't forgive Li Lin. I told Wang Lei that I was willing to give him a chance, but if he betrayed me again, I would not hesitate to leave him.
After hearing this, Wang Lei cried bitterly and assured me that he would never make a mistake again. He used practical actions to win back my trust and became more considerate and caring for me.
Li Lin's fate was miserable. She was condemned by everyone and lost her best friend and friend. The good life she once had was ruined by her own betrayal.
My mother-in-law was very relieved to see that Wang Lei and I were reconciled. She told me that there will inevitably be stumbles between husband and wife, and as long as you love each other, you should tolerate and forgive each other.
I have experienced this turmoil and cherished my marriage and friendship even more. I also learned to forgive and grow. Although the wounds are still there, I will try to heal them and get my life back on track.
Although Wang Lei and I are reconciled as before, Li Lin's betrayal has left an indelible scar in my heart. I can no longer trust her as much as I used to, and I can't be friends with her anymore.
Li Lin apologized to me many times and hoped that I would forgive her, but I could not let go. She betrayed me, hurt me, and I can't reconcile with her anymore.
Wang Lei also paid the price for his actions. He lost my trust and my respect. He carefully flattered me every day, hoping that I would forgive him.
I pretended to be innocent on the surface, but in my heart I could never forget his betrayal. I started to get suspicious and was always worried that he would cheat again.
Wang Lei saw my uneasiness and tried harder to be nice to me. He accompanies me shopping, watching movies, and often cooks for me. He proved to me that he really repented.
My mother-in-law also saw my concerns and often advised me to let go of the past and start over. She said that there will inevitably be stumbles between husband and wife, and as long as they love each other, they should tolerate and forgive each other.
I know in my heart that what my mother-in-law said makes sense, but it is not easy for me to completely forget Wang Lei's betrayal. I spent every day in an emotional struggle, longing for Wang Lei's love and afraid of being hurt again.
I started to have insomnia and started to get irritable. Wang Lei saw it in his eyes and felt pain in his heart. He tried harder to be nice to me, but he couldn't heal the pain in my heart.
I began to doubt myself, if I was too cautious, if I should forget the past and start over. But I couldn't convince myself to forgive someone who had betrayed me.
After a long struggle and reflection, I finally made the final decision. I can't forgive Wang Lei for his betrayal, and I can't continue to live with him anymore.
I filed for divorce from Wang Lei, and he begged me not to leave him, but he knew that I had made up my mind.
I left the house and left the small home where Wang Lei and I used to live together. I started a new life, a life without Wang Lei and Li Lin.
Although the divorce process was painful, I believe that it was the best choice I made for myself. I can no longer tolerate someone who has betrayed me, and I can no longer live in suspicion and pain.
After the divorce, I left the sad place and moved to a new city. I changed jobs, changed places of residence, and started a whole new life.
In the beginning, I lived in pain and confusion every day. I can't forget the hurt Wang Lei and Li Lin brought me, and I can't adapt to life without them.
But I told myself that I had to be strong, that I had to come out of this shadow. I started working hard to make the most of my life. I took various interest classes and made new friends.
Slowly, I began to come out of my pain. I began to enjoy a new life and began to discover the beauty of life.
I met new friends, who were kind and sincere, and made me re-appreciate the warmth of friendship. I also met new colleagues who were hardworking and motivated, which gave me a sense of fulfillment in my work.
Although I still think of Wang Lei and Li Lin occasionally, the heart-piercing pain has gradually subsided. I began to learn to let go of the past and learn to cherish the present.
After the divorce, I experienced a period of profound self-growth. I became more independent and stronger. I learned to love myself and how to love others.
I'm beginning to understand that marriage isn't all there is to love. True love is equality, respect, and inclusion. I began to look forward to a new relationship, one built on trust and understanding.
I've also come to understand that friendship is a two-way street. True friends support and encourage each other. I began to cherish the friends who were genuinely good to me, and I also began to alienate those who were hypocritical.
Although I haven't met a new love yet, I believe that fate has its own arrangement. I believe that I will definitely meet someone who truly loves me and is worthy of my life.
I also believe that I will have a happy and happy future. I will no longer be bound by the shadows of the past, and I will move forward bravely to embrace the happiness that belongs to me.
I firmly believe that as long as you have good intentions, you can get out of adversity and embrace happiness. Although the road may be long, I am confident that I will find my own happiness.