Ten years of marriage, when you change your mind, how do you view the deterioration of women in marriage?
He was in free love with his wife and lived happily ever after, but as time passed, he pondered divorce countless times. His wife has a bad attitude towards his parents, has a strong sense of vanity, and often makes fun of his friend's husband for making little money. He felt unbearable, but he struggled to maintain the relationship between the husband and wife, and the quarrels became more and more. For ten years, the wife met a man on the Internet, and although he stopped it, they eventually met, and the wife filed for divorce. In the reasons for divorce, the wife describes a perfect self and mocks him. He was disheartened and gave up on retaining.
His disappointment in his wife had accumulated too much, and he felt that no matter how hard he tried, her heart would never be on him. He gave up currying favor, which resulted in more quarrels. The wife has a bad attitude towards his parents and is vain, and his efforts cannot change her. When a man complains, check his behavior first, and if he has done well, and his wife is still bad, it is not recommended to bother to repair the marriage, but to divorce.
Why is it not necessary to keep a woman who has become bad on her own initiative? A woman who has become bad on her own initiative no longer needs her existing marriage as a spiritual support, and it is only a matter of time before she divorces. Most women who go bad do so because they are disappointed in their husbands, not because of external factors. After marriage, a man should pamper his wife, especially when the children are young, and share the responsibility of upbringing.
A woman who does not handle the relationship between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in marriage is also prone to deterioration. Both the wife and the mother-in-law have problems in the way they handle affairs, and both point the finger at the husband, leading to marital conflicts. Men should be patient and persuade to make their wives and mothers-in-law empathize.
In addition, women are also prone to deterioration when they are suppressed in the workplace. Women in the workplace have fewer opportunities for promotion, and repression leads women to commit themselves to their bosses. Men should be more understanding and supportive, so that their wives do not get lost in their work.
Finally, the man should make his wife happy and not let her feel like her life is in shambles. After getting married, it is necessary to maintain a happy life, otherwise the woman is prone to becoming bad. Don't take cheating as a curiosity or face-saving thing, and it's best not to get involved in extramarital affairs. Keeping your body strong and giving your wife happiness is the only way to ensure a stable marriage.
Their ten-year marriage came to an end, and the wife chose to leave. For him, it may have been a relief, but it was also a heart-wrenching experience. Looking back, he couldn't help but think: In marriage, is it passive or active for a woman to become bad? Perhaps, this is a complex issue that varies from person to person.
In marriage, he worked hard, but it was inevitable that there would be regrets and disappointments. For women, whether they become bad or not is often affected by various factors: emotional coldness, disputes between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, pressure in the workplace, and so on. For men, marriage is not only a responsibility and obligation, but also a tolerance and understanding, and giving his wife enough support and love.
Perhaps, in marriage, men should pay more attention to his wife's inner world, understand her needs and feelings, and manage a happy marriage together. For women, they should also cherish the people in front of them, manage their families and relationships with their hearts, and avoid going down the road of deterioration.
In general, marriage requires the joint efforts of both parties, and only mutual understanding, support and tolerance can go further and more steadily. May every couple cherish each other and create a happy future together.
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