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Although people are generally very anxious about the current situation of young people who are not married and have children, it is obvious that there are many chaos hidden behind marriage. Otherwise, why would there be a large number of young people who do not marry and have children?

Or, to put it another way, is it true that the whole responsibility lies with the young people? There is no responsibility for the institution of marriage, the pressure of survival, and even the various problems that may arise in the course of marriage? Of course, the most criticized problem is still the problem of the high bride price.

There are many people who think that the high price of the bride price itself is very unreasonable, and since they have already shown that marriage is the continuation of love, then why should they care about the number of things outside the body? But there are also those who believe that the essence of the bride price is actually a matter of attitude.

The amount of bride price you are willing to give represents the weight of your heart. To this day, these two views still have a terrifying audience and have been debated. But what few people know is that this small bride price can also be "made a little bit".

For example, many women will do other things with the intention of cheating on a high bride price, and there are also parents who willingly give away half of the value of the house to themselves in the name of marriage, which is called adding the woman's name to the real estate deed.

However, after the bride price is received and the name is added. Some women will file for divorce and divide up a lot of property. This is called "washing". That is, in the name of marriage, to defraud a large amount of property, especially real estate, and then transfer money.

The chaos behind the marriage

In fact, such cases are very common in real life, as many ordinary men are at a relative disadvantage. At a time when the ratio of men and women is not balanced, if you want to marry a wife, you obviously have to show your muscles on top of money to complete and do it.

The implication is that without the help of their parents, it is likely that these people will not even be able to marry a wife. But then again, even with the help of your parents, that's saving for most of your life. If you end up with no personal wealth, it will be very embarrassing.

But on the other hand, the real dilemma is that women's position in the marriage market is dominant and active. There are very few examples of not having a bride price. In other words, even if the woman does not want a bride price, then the man must prepare a house to live in.

However, it is the existence of an urgent need for housing that makes the act of washing the house one of the concentrated manifestations of marital chaos. Because many people do not understand the law, they do not know that the act of adding the wife's name to the real estate certificate after marriage is another form of "gift".

Although it is likely to be a gift from the husband's parents to one of the husband's parents, it is to be regarded as joint property under the relevant laws and regulations. This is because after marriage, the legitimate property of either husband or wife will be regarded as joint property of the husband and wife.

The essence of marriage is to benefit each other

So why is this chaos happening? In fact, it is mainly related to the nature of marriage. To put it bluntly, the union of two people is mutually beneficial. Let's not mention whether it is good for the elders behind it or even the entire family, but there is no doubt that it is good for both individuals.

Otherwise, there is no need for the two people to be fixed in the form of a legal union. When the tone that the essence of marriage is mutually beneficial, the behavior of exploiting loopholes will also appear. That is, many people will defraud property in the name of mutual benefit.

In order to achieve the purpose of profiting from it. In fact, this kind of scam exists not only on the mainland, but also abroad. Women who express their attitude towards marriage often make demands on the man to prove their strength (in fact, the so-called color power) and love.

When men can't see through the essence, they have already fallen into a trap. Then it will naturally usher in the final end of being deceived. If a good union between two people can develop into a casual relationship without paying any price.

Then the chaos will naturally disappear. However, since the establishment of the marriage system on the mainland, there has been a so-called "six rites" procedure. The hope and possibility of achieving the above wishes are very small. More importantly, there are some areas of the mainland that favor sons over women.

Normal marriage is still the main theme

Although things like cheating on marriages, washing houses, and living together (ostensibly couples) are very common in real life, normal marital relationships are still the main theme. In other words, the relationship between the sexes in marriage is still an inherent and dominant part of today's recognition.

People don't have to be overly anxious about this when they get married normally. Secondly, the laundry is not invulnerable. For example, parents can complete the gift of property (matrimonial house) before their children get married to indicate the nature of their personal ownership. Even if the name was added later, it would not help.

Thirdly, since the woman can take advantage of the loopholes in the law, the man can also take advantage of the loopholes in the law. According to the relevant content of the Marriage Law of the mainland, divorce must be agreed by both parties. As long as the man keeps biting to death and there are not many reasons to support divorce.

The woman's divorce will not succeed, and she will not be able to dissolve the property at will. It is worth mentioning that more and more people will make a fuss about the down payment of buying a house to be careful. For example, if there is an agreement to marry, the down payment on the house of the man and the woman must be half each.

In addition, the agreed bride price must be used for the daily living expenses of the couple, otherwise it will be regarded as a fraudulent marriage. Although some people will think that the situation of marriage as a tool for profit is becoming more and more prominent. But there are actually a lot of things that can be profitable.

Marriage is just one of them. If we can prevent it in advance and take appropriate measures, we can minimize the damage. But then again, you get married when you should get married, and you can't get married when you shouldn't.

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