Oh, this can be a fitness boy! Originally, he was happily exercising in the gym, but he didn't think about it, but he was inexplicably involved in a claim storm.
It is said that a lady was accidentally hit by a barbell in his hand while passing by, and the valuable jade bracelet on her wrist turned into powder. Seeing the wreckage all over the ground, she rightly demanded 5,000 yuan in compensation. Oh my god, that's messing the boy!
When it happened like this, both sides were of course taken aback. I saw that in the picture, the man focused on lifting the barbell to do strength training, and the woman walked over without thinking, but she didn't know that a valuable jade bracelet would suffer if she was not careful.
Despite the accident, the woman just reluctantly forced the young man to lose money, on the grounds that he must not have paid attention to the surrounding situation at that time, and he had to carry the pot.
As soon as he said that he would lose 5,000 yuan, the young man's muscles suddenly burst out, and this money was not a joke. As an ordinary student, he couldn't even afford to pay so much money for food, so how could he care about paying for such a valuable item? Of course, neither of them would let anyone go, and he soon broke up unhappily and called the police to show justice.
This small episode appeared on the hot search and sparked heated discussions among netizens. Some people overwhelmingly said that the young man was the first to lose, believing that the gym is a place for exercising, which is a high-risk area, and personal safety is important, but wearing precious and fragile items to enter is equivalent to paying for it yourself, and it has nothing to do with others. After all, who told the lady that you have to wear the jade bracelet with you?
Another group of netizens held a different view, believing that the young man should bear part of the responsibility no matter what, because when lifting heavy objects, he should pay more attention to the movements around him for safety. Some people even joked that when you see that lady came over, she must be too confident in her charm, thinking that the boy will be seduced by her beauty and put down the barbell.
In fact, from a legal point of view, there is indeed a problem of fault determination in this kind of accidental injury. According to the provisions of the Civil Code, the victim shall bear the losses for no-fault damage that occurs in high-risk places such as stadiums. However, if there is fault, the liability needs to be apportioned according to the specific circumstances.
A lawyer on the Internet said that the main fault of the lady is that she failed to exercise the necessary duty of care, and there is a certain risk in the gym exercise area, so she should not just walk around casually. The young man's secondary fault was that he failed to detect and alert the foreign object in time, causing the collision. As a result, the lady should bear most of the liability.
This analysis seems to make a lot of sense. After all, in the gym, exercisers are concerned about their own safety first, not taking care of the interests of passers-by. In addition, there is a high risk of heavy equipment exercise, and it is indeed not advisable to wear valuables. Otherwise, once the damage occurs, it is difficult to force compensation from others, and most of the responsibility will have to be borne by yourself.
But if you think about it, such a judgment is inevitably too absolute. Is it a bit hasty to throw the pot at the lady? We can't completely ignore the responsibility of the lads.
Intellectually speaking, he should maintain a certain degree of vigilance, such as paying attention to the movement around him when raising the bell, and stop the movement immediately if there is a foreign object approaching to avoid injury. No matter how bad it is, you should put a sentry nearby to warn people entering the area to be careful.
In this way, both sides did have some negligence. Therefore, on the issue of compensation sharing, we can't sprinkle all the anger on the lady. But at the same time, she must also be aware that she has been negligent and should not open her mouth and ask for excessive compensation. After all, it was her own decision to bring valuables into the high-risk area, even if it was not an intentional collision, but it was inevitable that there was a suspicion of risk.
Therefore, the fairest principle of sharing may be that the lady bears the main financial loss herself, and the young man pays appropriate financial compensation. The specific proportion needs to be negotiated between the two sides, but in any case it should not be beaten to death with a stick. After all, this is an accident in which both parties are at fault, and the best way to resolve the conflict is to meet frankly and dialogue on an equal footing.
In fact, this episode reflects a common problem in real life: whenever a dispute arises, both parties tend to rest on their laurels, so that it is difficult to distinguish between the two sides. The lack of mutual understanding and tolerance is the key. We are always accustomed to the binary thinking of right and wrong, and ignore the basic fact that "no one is a sage, and no one can do wrong".
Sometimes, we just need to lower our posture a little and empathize with the other person's situation to see that things are not black and white. Everyone will make mistakes in different circumstances, and the key is how to face up to problems, communicate with an open mind, and reconcile and coexist, rather than blindly attacking each other and being self-respecting.
Taking this episode as an example, if the two sides can negotiate in a calm and rational manner, they will definitely find a win-win solution, rather than-for-tat and fight. Even if the conflict cannot be completely resolved, at least it can be safe. This is not only beneficial to personal image, but also conducive to social harmony and stability.
Looking back at this incident and thinking about the fear, are the parties really too paranoid and aggressive? Is there still room for the young man to take a step back when he calls the police? Is the lady too aggressive and irrational in the process of claiming compensation? If she had been able to empathize and be humble at that time, maybe she would have been able to turn the conflict into a jade silk.